Things you should know about your gf/bf b4 you start dating them

[00:00:01] Speaker A: Y. [00:00:02] Speaker B: Yes. [00:00:05] Speaker C: All right. All new episode running. Tell that podcast. How's everybody? How's everybody's week? [00:00:17] Speaker A: This is jp. My week has been hell. I think. I think I'm gonna retire and as soon as I can. But I, you know, okay, I joke. I. I say it's been hell, but it's been a blessed week. Work. Because I'm still working. But I. I tell you what, at. I'm almost 60. I'm about tired now, so it's been a bless. [00:00:45] Speaker B: Please. [00:00:46] Speaker A: How about you guys? All is well? [00:00:49] Speaker B: Yeah, you know what? My week actually was really, really good, other than I had to take on another responsibility. So at the end of the day, man, I thank the Lord that I'm able to take that responsibility at work. You know what I'm saying? So. To all the hoes. [00:01:10] Speaker A: J. [00:01:11] Speaker B: To all the. [00:01:12] Speaker C: Wow. [00:01:14] Speaker B: That didn't take long. Sorry. [00:01:17] Speaker C: It ain't that long. [00:01:19] Speaker A: I don't know where that come from. Fell. [00:01:24] Speaker C: But my week was. Oh, there he is. Oh, no, there he is. [00:01:33] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:01:35] Speaker C: Stupid. [00:01:36] Speaker D: He's stupid. [00:01:46] Speaker C: How was your week, bro? [00:01:50] Speaker D: Oh, it wasn't bad. [00:01:53] Speaker C: That changed something. [00:01:56] Speaker D: Hey, man, you know, it is what it is. You know, it was pretty solid. [00:02:03] Speaker A: How was your week? [00:02:06] Speaker C: It was. It was okay. I mean, my week doesn't end till Wednesday, but until Tuesday night, but. But. But it was pretty good so far. But we're gonna go ahead and get into tonight's episode. Episode 82, things you should know about your girlfriend or boyfriend before you date them. [00:02:27] Speaker A: I. I like that title. Yeah, I would have been expert on that. [00:02:31] Speaker B: Well, you know. You know, if you think about, like, everybody want to know about the boyfriend. [00:02:37] Speaker A: I ain't had no boyfriends, G. And. [00:02:39] Speaker B: Then everybody want to know about the girlfriend and all this stuff like that. No, you got. [00:02:42] Speaker C: You. You got. [00:02:43] Speaker A: He ain't never had that boy. [00:02:44] Speaker B: So the Alphabet group is very full right now. [00:02:47] Speaker A: I got you. [00:02:48] Speaker D: So. [00:02:49] Speaker B: I mean, they got. I mean, so you got to be very careful with the Alphabet group. What I'm saying is that when I. When I made that. When I actually said girlfriend. Boyfriend, is that some. Some people like you dating them, they don't cook. [00:03:02] Speaker A: Yeah. And ladies, I. I'm. I'm married now. But if I'm saying you don't cook, you can get the hell on. [00:03:16] Speaker D: Yes. [00:03:17] Speaker A: Barefooted, pregnant, in the kitchen, and then something. [00:03:22] Speaker C: Oh, wow. [00:03:23] Speaker A: And then get in trouble. [00:03:24] Speaker B: Yeah, you definitely will. But then the family going, some. Some people don't clean, and that might be a deal breaker. [00:03:32] Speaker A: You got to go. [00:03:33] Speaker B: But, like. And then you don't clean. Some people don't, but it's a lot of revenue that you. [00:03:37] Speaker A: How about the man, G? [00:03:39] Speaker B: No, I'm saying, like, it go both. [00:03:41] Speaker A: Ways. [00:03:45] Speaker B: And then you got some man that don't. You got some man that wash. I love man that don't. [00:03:52] Speaker A: I'mma prove something right now, G. G is why Dale. Do you cook? [00:03:57] Speaker B: I cook. [00:03:58] Speaker A: Do you clean? [00:03:59] Speaker B: I clean. [00:03:59] Speaker A: Do you watch clothes. Do you cook? [00:04:01] Speaker B: Yeah, all the time. [00:04:02] Speaker A: Do you clean? [00:04:03] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:04:03] Speaker A: Do you watch? I don't. [00:04:04] Speaker E: I don't. [00:04:05] Speaker B: I don't. I don't clean. [00:04:06] Speaker A: Yes, you do. [00:04:07] Speaker B: I cook. [00:04:08] Speaker A: You wash dish. [00:04:11] Speaker B: Don't wash this. [00:04:12] Speaker A: Yeah, I hope we going somewhere. [00:04:13] Speaker B: You know the only reason why? Because I got dishwasher. [00:04:16] Speaker A: What, do you put them in the dishwasher? [00:04:19] Speaker B: I. I got a dishwasher. You know the only time I use a dishwasher when I got, like, five or more people there. [00:04:25] Speaker A: Hey, I just want. Hey, I'm with you. I cook. I clean. I wash dish. [00:04:30] Speaker B: There she go. Cali girl. [00:04:34] Speaker A: So what. What. What's up, C? [00:04:37] Speaker C: What Cali at? [00:04:38] Speaker B: She. She just. [00:04:39] Speaker C: Cie. Yeah, she left. [00:04:43] Speaker A: She. [00:04:44] Speaker C: I don't see her. [00:04:45] Speaker B: You know, she changed her avatar, so. Her avatar lighter than. [00:04:48] Speaker C: Oh. [00:04:52] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah. [00:04:53] Speaker B: If it's lighting her. She white. She Belgian. Oh, Jesus. But you know what? [00:04:59] Speaker D: What? [00:04:59] Speaker B: What? When I was thinking about making that topic and all that stuff like that. Good topic, you know, it's some stuff that men do. [00:05:08] Speaker A: Yes. [00:05:09] Speaker B: That women don't like. It's some stuff that women do that. Yeah. [00:05:13] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:05:13] Speaker B: So if. If I was. If I was dating someone, I would love to have someone who's just like my wife. [00:05:21] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:05:22] Speaker B: Oh. If you think about it, is that. [00:05:24] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:05:24] Speaker B: She do all the. The stuff that I know and I do all the stuff that she don't do. [00:05:30] Speaker C: Hey, y' all talking. [00:05:31] Speaker A: You compliment each other. It's like a compliment. [00:05:34] Speaker C: Yeah. Y' all breaking up. Y' all were breaking up and talking fast at the same time. [00:05:42] Speaker B: Bring this right here. [00:05:44] Speaker A: Do what you want to do. [00:05:45] Speaker B: Hey, bro, you sit right here. [00:05:46] Speaker A: We got jiggle. We're gonna try to fix that. [00:05:51] Speaker C: I'm gonna go ahead and play cat. Callie got, like, three messages. I'm gonna play her messages. [00:05:58] Speaker E: Well, gentlemen, gentlemen, gentlemen. It's been a minute. I'm sorry. I'm here. Happy Friday, guys. What's going on? It says things you should know about your girlfriend slash boyfriend before you date them. Oh, I want to hear this. Yes. I'm not white. I guess I need to change the skin. The skin tone you guys are funny. Wait a minute. It says things you should know about them before you date them. You have to date them to know them. What you talking about? Are you talking about getting on the phone for months and months or weeks and weeks on time to know them? Like, how are you supposed to know them? Like, face to face? [00:06:57] Speaker B: Yeah, a few conversations to kind of give you a rough idea where you're at. [00:07:00] Speaker C: I meant to race, but y' all speeding up again. [00:07:04] Speaker B: All right, how about right now? [00:07:07] Speaker C: No, you good now. [00:07:14] Speaker B: All right, go ahead, bro. No, like I said, it don't take a whole lot. It don't. It don't take a. A long conversation to identify your likes and your dislikes. Yeah, we don't want to waste no time and money. [00:07:26] Speaker A: A. I'm not. I'm. I'm married. If I was single again. We're gonna drink some coffee. We going to the park. No black women. I ain't spending a hundred dollars, two hundred, three hundred to take you out. I spend five dollars if you don't like it. Hell with you. [00:07:43] Speaker B: Well, I'll tell you. [00:07:44] Speaker C: Oh, damn. [00:07:46] Speaker D: So. [00:07:47] Speaker B: So if I'm taking. If. If I'm taking out a lady that we getting to know. Look, back in the days, remember, y' all remember old English? Old English, 800. Y' all remember what the. The Blue bowl, the Red Bull? Y' all remember all those kind of drinks that we. Mad Dog, 20, 20, and all this? Look, man, look, if that's what. If that's what satisfied me, then look, that's what satisfied me. Go ahead. [00:08:18] Speaker E: Go ahead. [00:08:19] Speaker A: What if they don't like it? What, Gene? [00:08:22] Speaker B: Cry two tears in a bucket? That's right. If that don't feel it. [00:08:26] Speaker A: What G talking about, too many people are caught up on what somebody would spend. I interrupt G. I'm bad about that, but G got a very good point. Everybody's want you to spend 2, $300 on a daily get a free meal off of you. But the black man has figured it out. Regardless of what anybody say, you know, I'm not down to win. [00:08:50] Speaker B: No, never. [00:08:51] Speaker A: That man has figured it out. And they're no longer spending all this big money, but give people a free meal. [00:09:00] Speaker B: So my thing is that why do we have to like, like, why do we have to broadcast our stuff more than the ladies? But we gotta say we got no, think about it now. We gotta say we got six pack. We gotta say that we gotta keep nice. We broadcast ourselves out on the Internet. [00:09:18] Speaker C: Y' all speeding up again. [00:09:21] Speaker A: That's what they Demand of us. G. [00:09:27] Speaker B: How about right now? [00:09:35] Speaker C: No. [00:09:37] Speaker B: Yeah, okay. [00:09:40] Speaker C: No, y' all good. [00:09:42] Speaker A: Hey, Harrison G asked a question. Here's the problem. Women, men know what they want. It doesn't take much. I mean, fellas, I've talked about it in three S's. Six salads and sandwiches. [00:09:59] Speaker B: Sss, sss. [00:10:02] Speaker A: But you women call in if you think I'm wrong. But most women, why the sandwich? Sandwich. Men give a man something to eat, give him some sex, and give him some peace of mind, and he's happy. It doesn't take much for us. But you women. But why. [00:10:20] Speaker B: But I'm saying, like, what. What does the sandwich do? [00:10:24] Speaker A: Sandwich represents. Feed that man. [00:10:27] Speaker B: You gotta feed him. [00:10:28] Speaker A: Feed that man. They always say, what was up? Old saying, Dale, me, you, and G. G. The way to a man's heart. [00:10:37] Speaker B: So sandwich. Yeah, it represents. It represents the full stuff. [00:10:42] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah. [00:10:44] Speaker B: You gotta feed them and. [00:10:45] Speaker A: Yeah, don't say dad. You can't say that. [00:10:48] Speaker B: I can't say that, but you gotta feed them and you gotta. [00:10:55] Speaker C: Y' all connection messing up again? [00:10:58] Speaker B: What you say, brother? [00:11:00] Speaker C: Y' all connection messing up again. [00:11:03] Speaker A: Oh, Lord. [00:11:05] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:11:05] Speaker D: See? What? [00:11:06] Speaker B: You might have to find it. [00:11:09] Speaker C: Cali got, like, three messages. [00:11:11] Speaker E: Okay, don't say everybody, because this Cali girl does not expect that. Don't say everybody. I am not a materialistic person. I give. Are there things that you need? I give a lot. [00:11:32] Speaker C: What do you give? [00:11:33] Speaker B: Final feeder. [00:11:37] Speaker A: Look, I like that question, bro. [00:11:38] Speaker B: Hey, bro, before. Before you keep going, play the other mess because I was getting ready to ask that question. [00:11:46] Speaker A: Good question. [00:11:53] Speaker B: We know what she. What she want to receive now. [00:11:58] Speaker C: Y' all talking real slow. Y' all connection. Y' all talking real slow, then real fast, and then it's like it's breaking up. [00:12:08] Speaker B: All right, Y. [00:12:09] Speaker A: Go. [00:12:09] Speaker B: Go ahead and play the message. I'mma try to figure this out. I think al here. [00:12:16] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:12:17] Speaker B: Let me see. [00:12:18] Speaker E: Yeah. Yeah. Your guys's connection, G man, is not good at all. First, let's go, and then it's okay. And it goes. Yeah. What's going on with y' all? Where y' all sitting at? In the pond, out in the river on the lake. Gentlemen, gentlemen, gentlemen. It's been a minute since I've been up on the panel. I would love to come up and join in on the conversation. I was waiting in the thing to see if you guys noticed. I was trying to come up, but I will hop down. I do feed my man. I sure do. You know, it was a couple weeks back where I put together some just Basic egg salad sandwich type of thing, right? You know, you make the eggs out. The egg sandwich, the. The egg stuff that you put in the sandwich, right? You mix it up real good. You boil all the eggs. You put the mayo, you put the mustard. You put the relish. You know, put some seasoning in there. I made a whole lot of it. The first day my boyfriend took a sandwich to lunch, I called him up, I said, so, babe, how's the sandwich? He said, that sandwich was fire. It was so good. He loved it. He ate that egg sandwich for the next three days. The rest of it, I was like, there you go, baby. [00:13:50] Speaker C: I'll be honest with you. That was kind of a letdown. We thought you were gonna say something different, but you said an egg salad sandwich. Okay. [00:13:57] Speaker D: Oh, hey, salad. I ain't gonna lie to you. I thought it was egg sandwich because a regular egg sandwich would be. Plus just a regular egg sample. But I ain't gonna lie to you. Let me tell you something. [00:14:09] Speaker C: I really. I really thought Cali was gonna say something else. I don't know what she was gonna say. [00:14:14] Speaker D: We hear you now, I think. [00:14:17] Speaker C: Yeah, we hear you now because I. [00:14:18] Speaker B: Have my phone in my pocket, so. I have my phone in my pocket, and then I have an iPad going and all that stuff like that, so. [00:14:25] Speaker C: Oh, okay. [00:14:26] Speaker B: Actually figure out. So are we speeding up now? [00:14:30] Speaker D: No, no, no. Everything. Everything's solid now. [00:14:32] Speaker B: All right. [00:14:33] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:14:33] Speaker B: So. So my question. So my question is that she said she fed him. Okay? So once again, I can't talk while y' all two talking. I'm sorry. [00:14:45] Speaker A: She wouldn't pay. You know. [00:14:49] Speaker B: I can't do this. [00:14:53] Speaker A: You are not talking church every Sunday. [00:14:58] Speaker B: I really. I really. I can't. Look, let me tell you this. [00:15:03] Speaker A: I ain't gonna talk in church no. [00:15:05] Speaker B: More when Dale, I really can't hear you in my left ear. You and my left ears. You talking about something totally different. So how. How I supposed to Concentrate, G. You concentrate. Hey, look, look, look. And then it's always y' all, too. Nobody else but y' all, too. I don't have nobody else to blame but y' all, too. [00:15:21] Speaker A: But G. When Dale is teaching but you have I told. Hey, Dale. [00:15:31] Speaker B: I don't want to hear about me. I'm just saying that every time we're in a podcast, y' all two. [00:15:36] Speaker A: Every time I tell you, that's you and ig. [00:15:39] Speaker B: No, but you. You go to the extreme. You start talking about things that. He's talking about us. We talking about Doug life. We talking about the woman. We talking about the. We talking about the boyfriend and the girlfriend and, you know, the things that you. But every time I talk to you, you sitting up there talking about sugar, honey and iced tea. [00:15:59] Speaker D: I know, G. In Nagasaki. [00:16:02] Speaker A: I'm sorry. So, hey, boys, in Naha, when you walk down the street, the women will pull you into the bar and. [00:16:16] Speaker B: And Deli know. [00:16:17] Speaker A: He ain't even. [00:16:18] Speaker B: He didn't even help me out. Look, after all this, he knows. And when JP Come around, they have all these nice conversations, and I'm like. [00:16:28] Speaker A: You and I, G. But I'm trying. [00:16:30] Speaker B: To figure why y' all keep talking while I'm talking. [00:16:32] Speaker A: Because you talking about something important. Me and Dale ain't talking about nothing important. [00:16:36] Speaker B: Look, T. Kong, you got nothing on me. [00:16:42] Speaker A: No, go ahead, G. I can't. [00:16:44] Speaker B: I can't say, but we gonna play these masters right quick. [00:16:48] Speaker C: Yeah, I'm going to play him out. [00:16:51] Speaker E: It doesn't matter. It could be damn steak. It's the fact that I put my heart in it. I put my heart in it. And he knew I made. I. I was up after 9 o' clock making that for him. He was appreciator. Just that. That's the point. [00:17:08] Speaker C: Oh, okay. I was just saying I thought that the story was going to lead to something else, but then it ended up leading to a sandwich. Okay. [00:17:16] Speaker B: Yes, sir. [00:17:18] Speaker C: I didn't know. Because, see, when you don't know when we deal with Cali that the story goes in a totally different direction than the direction that it went. So I was expecting something else. [00:17:33] Speaker D: Do be hidden, though. [00:17:34] Speaker B: No, no, but. But y' all gotta. Y' all gotta. [00:17:37] Speaker C: These are egg salad, not a regular egg sandwich. [00:17:40] Speaker D: And I know that, but we. I don't. You know, I don't eat that, so we gotta shift it to just the egg sandwich. [00:17:47] Speaker B: I remember you told me back in. [00:17:48] Speaker D: 90, but I remember you told me back in 97 you had somebody make you an egg sandwich and jerk you off at the same time. And you told me how. You told me. You told me how this turn was. [00:18:01] Speaker C: This turned. So this turned so quickly. Because I don't remember ever saying that, but. All right. [00:18:08] Speaker A: You said it. [00:18:09] Speaker D: I mean, this is a comfort zone. It's a comfort zone. You know? You know. You know, Dale. [00:18:18] Speaker C: You are comfort zone alive. That's what this is. [00:18:24] Speaker D: These your brothers. You can. You can let them know what you told me. It's 97, baby. [00:18:29] Speaker C: We got 1, 2, 3, 4, 5. We got six messages. I'm gonna play the messages out, run. [00:18:34] Speaker D: Them all right, y' all know what. [00:18:38] Speaker E: Kelly meant by making an egg sandwich. [00:18:40] Speaker D: What's all the ingredients that become that. [00:18:43] Speaker E: Comes in an egg salad? Basically. The point is it could have been a damn pancake. It's the fact that I put the love in it to make it for him and it turned out delicious. It could have been lasagna as long as it came out delicious. And he knew I did it for my heart. It was appreciated and that's why it was fire. It was good. You know what I mean? [00:19:18] Speaker C: Yeah, we know what you mean. [00:19:20] Speaker E: What's up guys? I think before dating a lady, what I usually like to to know is if she has a penis. I think that's important later for our sexual life. So what do you think? [00:19:39] Speaker D: Y. [00:19:40] Speaker C: What he said? He said, lady, you need to make sure she have a penis. You gotta make sure she don't have a penis. Michael Bay. [00:19:48] Speaker D: Yeah, we hear Michael Bay. Michael Bay. Michael Bay is casting for the next Optimus prime in Transformers 2032. We got you. Oh. [00:20:03] Speaker E: But you want me to rub something else instead? But if my feet. Me rubbing your feet felt so good. As long as it feels very good and you know it's coming from me, you'd appreciate it. Right. [00:20:21] Speaker D: Angle lie. Gerard is a feet dude and Gerard said if you roll his feet, it would. [00:20:32] Speaker B: Like that. [00:20:33] Speaker D: You said you called the ghost. You said that. [00:20:41] Speaker C: I mean that is not what I said. That is not what I said. [00:20:44] Speaker D: But I. I understand. [00:20:47] Speaker C: You don't want to say in front of let you go with it. [00:20:50] Speaker D: Listen, G man, them, they not going to look at you differently. This what you said back in 99. I'm just letting them know it's okay. Your brother's here for you. Yeah. [00:21:06] Speaker C: Nah, we got another message. [00:21:09] Speaker E: Oh, Jordan. I know. Okay, okay, okay. I thought you were meaning something else. It wasn't. Okay, I got. I got it. You good? You good? Turkey and egg. Who the hell? What the hell, 90 something. What are we talking about? [00:21:24] Speaker C: I don't know what we're talking about. [00:21:29] Speaker E: I had no idea. I just threw that out there. Really? Really? Oh my God. That's hilarious. Just to make it clear, I'm not a transphobe. I have nothing against transsexual people, okay? What I don't like is surprises. So if you tell me I have like a 8 inches penis or something, you want to suck it, I may say, yeah, I never tried. Why not? But I don't like surprises. Okay? If you tell me. If you don't tell me that you have a penis, you Better not have a penis. [00:22:07] Speaker A: What the hell? [00:22:08] Speaker B: Well, he got a penis. He got a penis. We know. [00:22:14] Speaker C: Oh. [00:22:17] Speaker D: He'S saying that he's not into magic tricks. Look, hey, look, if you said. [00:22:26] Speaker C: Oh. [00:22:27] Speaker D: You said, let me show you magic, and you pulling all these goddamn ribbons out your damn lapel pocket. That ain't it. [00:22:37] Speaker B: You make it right. [00:22:43] Speaker C: All right, y' all, we gotta get. We gotta get back on topic. We gotta get back on top. [00:22:47] Speaker D: You got. You got one more message, though. [00:22:50] Speaker A: Oh. [00:22:54] Speaker E: You like your toes to be licked on and sucked on. But first of all, do you go get, you know, a pedicure? First of all, how. How Nice. Nice, shiny and smooth out here, twinkle toes. [00:23:09] Speaker D: Well, well, draw said back in. Like, here we go. [00:23:14] Speaker C: Everything is back in. Everything is back in the 90s. Okay. All right. [00:23:18] Speaker D: I mean, that's what that. That was your heyday. You said back in 96. You said you did your own. Because you said, look, you ain't got to get ready when you stay ready. All right, now he did. Now he did say that it's only clear coat only. That's is on topic because this is some things that women should know about their man or boyfriend. And you said, you clear cod, but you don't mind telling somebody, yeah, go ahead and put a little bit of that clear coat on. On your tongue and go ahead and suck this big toe. You stupid. [00:24:10] Speaker C: You stupid. You stupid. Just know that. [00:24:18] Speaker D: Hey, look, at least. At least McConnell is gone and we not talking about. Duh, you know. [00:24:27] Speaker B: We can get that. [00:24:29] Speaker D: I'm surprised that G man didn't say anything. [00:24:32] Speaker C: Yeah, I don't think he heard it. Oh, I don't think he heard him. [00:24:38] Speaker B: No, I didn't. [00:24:39] Speaker C: We got. [00:24:40] Speaker B: Yeah, look, I step away and use the AKA men room. [00:24:52] Speaker C: So what. Okay, what are some things that. [00:25:00] Speaker D: You should know? [00:25:01] Speaker C: What are some things you should know? Yeah. Oh, when you. When you out there dating, I guess about the other person. [00:25:12] Speaker B: Well, first and foremost, you want to make sure that whoever you dating, like, if you. If you into that man, the man, then you. You need to know that if you're into that woman, the woman stuff you need to know, if you're in that man and woman stuff, you need to know that. That's what I think. Right. But one of the most important things you need to know if they are like minded of you. You know what I'm saying? Because we can take. You can take a person out to eat dinner and all this stuff like that, y' all can sit across from the table. They can order like 10,000 different things. And you okay with it? [00:25:45] Speaker A: I'm gonna send the ass out of here. Go ahead. [00:25:55] Speaker B: In general. Is that. That you. You have. And that's a. Some people like, man, you man. You invite me out to eat dinner, I'm gonna order the whole menu. [00:26:03] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:26:06] Speaker B: But that's when you figure it out at that dinner table that that person is like a gold digger. Do you agree with that? Because if you see them ordering lobster tail and you ordering chicken tender and. [00:26:19] Speaker A: They can't afford to eat that on their own. G. Right? [00:26:22] Speaker B: That's right. [00:26:23] Speaker A: You got to go, baby. [00:26:25] Speaker C: Bye. [00:26:25] Speaker A: Bye. [00:26:25] Speaker B: I don't care. I don't care how deep the vajayjay is or how long. [00:26:33] Speaker C: Hey, y' all break. Y' all breaking up again? [00:26:38] Speaker A: When you find you. Do I need to move over there? [00:26:41] Speaker B: How about right now, brother? [00:26:43] Speaker C: You're good right now. [00:26:45] Speaker A: I'm gonna let you talk, but it's just. [00:26:47] Speaker B: It's just kind of crazy that. [00:26:48] Speaker A: It is crazy. [00:26:49] Speaker B: How to. How to. We as men, we get. We get. [00:26:55] Speaker A: We get blame for me catch hell. [00:26:57] Speaker B: But we get blamed for the relationship. [00:26:59] Speaker A: Men get blamed for everything. And most it's not our fault. It doesn't as mean Jeep and Dale and the boys. It doesn't take much to please a man, but it takes a whole bunch to please a woman. Hey, she wants Adele, would you help me out there? [00:27:21] Speaker B: For sure. [00:27:22] Speaker A: She wants these man at six feet tall. Lady, I'm only five seven. [00:27:27] Speaker B: That's me. [00:27:28] Speaker A: She wants the man that makes six figure. $100,000 a year more. [00:27:35] Speaker B: I don't make no six figure. [00:27:36] Speaker A: G. Stop line. [00:27:43] Speaker B: I don't make six figures. [00:27:44] Speaker A: Gee, stop lying. [00:27:45] Speaker D: You. [00:27:45] Speaker A: You one of the few people I know that do make six figures. And she wants six inches. I can meet that lady. [00:27:56] Speaker B: I got two inches. [00:27:57] Speaker A: G. G, you throw that G. I got two. All the rest of it. If all you got is Gee, two inches. [00:28:03] Speaker B: Look, I got knob. I'm like two inches, two inches and less than six. I got that lonely man. That's a prescription for a lonely man. But check this out. [00:28:11] Speaker D: Who. [00:28:12] Speaker B: Who used to sing that song? Edie, who used to sing that song? Yo, look, you're right. It goes like this. Edy, Weedy, be that swivel up. [00:28:21] Speaker A: That's me. [00:28:22] Speaker B: I don't want no short. That's me. Look, I ain't got. I ain't got nothing to give nobody. I ain't got nothing to give nobody. I know. I know I said a couple weeks. I got 11, but. [00:28:41] Speaker A: I know I. [00:28:41] Speaker B: Said I only learned that from my best friend. [00:28:46] Speaker A: They smart now. Hey, I was a young man. [00:28:49] Speaker B: That was my best friend told me that from the. The other podcast. The, the other podcast was the old country boys come podcast. He told me. [00:29:02] Speaker A: Country boy. [00:29:03] Speaker B: No, but he, he was saying that, hey, them old country boy podcast. [00:29:12] Speaker A: When I was in high school. This true story. [00:29:15] Speaker B: Now you can't tell them long stories. [00:29:18] Speaker A: No, G, give me. [00:29:20] Speaker B: Because it won't take but 30 seconds. I still want to talk. [00:29:23] Speaker A: But you will take 15 right now. Go ahead, G. The cat name was Melvin, I love. And Melvin was Mel. We was in high school there and Mel was messing. We was 17 and Mel was messing with a 40 year old woman. I said, how you handle that woman sexually? And Melvin said, it ain't what you got, it's how you use it. And so to this day, I think it's still how you use it, G. [00:29:56] Speaker B: It's not the. It's not the size of the ship, but the most. [00:30:02] Speaker C: We got like seven messages. I'm gonna go ahead and play them out. [00:30:05] Speaker A: Play them, bro. [00:30:08] Speaker E: J, do you manscape? See, is this a question you would ask a gentleman before you start dating him? Do you, man, do any of you manscape? [00:30:23] Speaker C: I do. No, no. I do. [00:30:31] Speaker D: I feel like. I feel like you bring new bush. I feel like if you gonna bring your bush to the party, I feel like if you're gonna bring your bush to the party, I might as well too. We might as well go ahead and play peekaboo together. [00:30:52] Speaker E: Another question would be, do you wipe your ass the right way? Is that a question you need to ask on the first date or the first conversation? [00:31:06] Speaker C: I ain't. [00:31:10] Speaker E: Do you wipe your ass the right way? Do you. [00:31:13] Speaker C: Oh, wow. [00:31:14] Speaker E: Is that a question you need to ask on the first date or in the first conversation? [00:31:21] Speaker D: You may have to. Some nasty out here. [00:31:25] Speaker C: Yeah, it is. It is. [00:31:26] Speaker E: You may. [00:31:29] Speaker C: I know some don't. I know some don't know how to wipe the front or the back. [00:31:33] Speaker D: I'm telling you. [00:31:34] Speaker C: Just saying. I'm just saying. [00:31:39] Speaker D: They come out the bathroom pulling pan down to my day, took a picture like, oh, I don't know. You got some rocky road going on. You sure? [00:31:50] Speaker C: You got the rock and roll with a splash of a yeast infection. [00:31:54] Speaker E: Oh, the good one is, do you ask for the paper? The paper signed by a doctor saying you have no disease. [00:32:05] Speaker C: Yeah, now that is a good one. [00:32:06] Speaker D: I can see that one. [00:32:08] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:32:08] Speaker B: But then do you do that on. [00:32:09] Speaker D: The first date or the knocking date, though? [00:32:11] Speaker C: Not. [00:32:12] Speaker D: So when is the Time to ask about the paperwork. [00:32:18] Speaker C: I would think. No, but I feel like whenever you feel like you. Because you know what I'm saying, just because you date some. You go out on the first date with somebody, don't mean that that's gonna happen or. You know what I'm saying, it's gonna, you know. So I feel like whenever you made it to that point where you think something might happen, I guess, or you think you're to that stage. [00:32:45] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:32:46] Speaker C: Because there are some people that's. That's. You know what I'm saying, they go on multiple dates before something sexually happens. So you got some people that. They don't like talking about sex on the first conversation either. [00:32:59] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:33:00] Speaker C: So it all depends. [00:33:00] Speaker D: But what if y' all. [00:33:02] Speaker C: But that is a good one. [00:33:03] Speaker D: So y' all. So y' all at Olive Garden. Y' all got these deep in bread sticks and y' all over some fettuccine. You just look over, you'll be like, yeah, so, yeah, we had to clap. [00:33:23] Speaker C: Yeah. I don't be honest with you. I don't think I want to talk about if somebody got gondoria or anything like syphilis or anything like that while I'm eating dinner, you know? [00:33:30] Speaker D: I mean, no, I'm just. I'm not saying you just throwing it out there. You know, you feel like that's given her or him, you'd be like, I feel like this doesn't have something. And we finished Jeopardy. This. Because I feel like it's gonna be. [00:33:46] Speaker B: Well, no. [00:33:47] Speaker D: Double somewhere eventually. [00:33:49] Speaker C: Well, no. Well, no. If I see, like, if I go, okay. Especially when you're dealing with, like, let's say, online dating. And you deal with the online dating part. Right. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. You. You. You know, you share pictures, but you haven't physically seen that person. And then you physically see them, let's say they got a cluster of bumps, like, right down their lip. Then I feel like you gotta ask, oh, my God, that gonna bother you all goddamn night. Because they make. Them ain't the same bumps that was on your picture that you sent. So I'm just saying, you know, I feel like at that point. [00:34:21] Speaker D: What if it's the after effect, though? It's starting to start, like, clear up, you know? Like, it's starting to clear up, but. [00:34:28] Speaker C: You can still see the remnants at that point. [00:34:32] Speaker D: It's like. It's like. It's like that loose, dry skin. [00:34:34] Speaker C: You like, no, I gotta ask. I gotta ask. I gotta ask. Do you have an outbreak every Six months out of the year. I gotta ask that question. Let me get back to the messages. [00:34:50] Speaker E: Can I ask why you guys always go back to the gold digger thing? Because not everybody's like that. But I agree. Oh my God, I've seen so many clips about that. You know, I think you. I don't know if you guys seen. I'm sure you guys have seen. Seen on Tick Tock. The clip where the guy has this Lamborghini and he walks down the sidewalk and he meets the girl, finds out she's a gold digger. Which I think is all set up. But anyways. Yeah, not every girl is like that. Just like I know each of you individually are different ways. Yes, you have certain things that are alike, but you are your own person. I'm not. I'm not going to look at Ro the same way I look at Gerard. I'm not going to look at T the way I look at everybody else. [00:35:49] Speaker C: Yeah, that's a JP thing. When JP says, you know that that makes women only want the three sixes. You know what I'm saying? So that's what that is. 306. [00:36:07] Speaker B: Three sixes. [00:36:08] Speaker A: Cute. [00:36:10] Speaker E: Since nobody else really is speaking baby wise in the audience. So I do want somebody tall because I am tall myself. I am five, seven, five, eight without heels. If I were to put on heels, I need somebody six something. And it's funny I'm saying. I mean it's not funny I'm saying this, but my ex husband was shorter than I was and how I was married to him for 20 some years. Being short, he was not all that in any other area. So I don't know. But anyways, yes, he has to be around 6, 3. [00:36:48] Speaker C: That's perfect. [00:36:51] Speaker B: Perfect. [00:36:55] Speaker C: JP said J. JP said he wouldn't mind climbing that tree. [00:37:03] Speaker A: Kelly, I want G to check you on this. Hell, you still short. Them heels ain't real. You talk about five, five, six G with them heels on. [00:37:15] Speaker B: Six feet tall, G man, six feet. [00:37:17] Speaker A: Hey, them hills don't mean nothing. [00:37:19] Speaker B: It'll mean nothing to me. [00:37:20] Speaker A: Cause they ain't real. [00:37:21] Speaker B: That's right. [00:37:22] Speaker A: Hey, you talking about like even the holy field. The real deal. So hey, I want all you women, including Cali, take off all of the things that are not. [00:37:34] Speaker B: Yeah, let me pause you right quick. So she talking about her being with heels on. [00:37:41] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:37:42] Speaker B: So Cali, this is the question from G man to you. [00:37:47] Speaker A: Go ahead. G. [00:37:50] Speaker B: Have you ever been swallowed? [00:37:57] Speaker C: Oh. [00:38:02] Speaker A: I was no. [00:38:03] Speaker B: Until after no voice. [00:38:10] Speaker D: But we. [00:38:11] Speaker B: We do got five more messages. My bad. I Need to get the message out so I can listen. I need to listen to it and I can actually respond. [00:38:19] Speaker A: Yeah, it ain't real. [00:38:21] Speaker B: No, no. Because I look. So think about it, and I'm gonna tell you guys this. All right, so imagine guys. Imagine us as guys. So think about it. So. So imagine us as guys. Those stuff in our feet are in our shoes. That make us like, inches higher. You know what I'm saying? [00:38:43] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:38:43] Speaker A: Inches highest. I'm. I'm gonna get me in the extension. I might be. [00:38:47] Speaker B: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Oh, Lord. [00:38:49] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:38:49] Speaker B: Oh, Lord have mercy. [00:38:50] Speaker A: Since y' all will put it that way, and I think. I don't know what. Gee, what is there. What else can I do myself? Let me check. G. I got a problem with women. They got fake fingernails, they got fake hair, they got fake eye black. They got fake boobs, they got fake lips. Bbl. And then they talk about men with, hey, take all of that off and come to my face and tell me fake eyelashes. Fake eyelashes. [00:39:21] Speaker B: And then fake eye color. [00:39:24] Speaker A: Fake eye color. Hey, look, we can't do all of that. No, if you. If you compare us and we some. [00:39:31] Speaker B: Good looking men, the only thing that we can do as men is that we can get veneers. [00:39:35] Speaker A: What the hell is that, G? [00:39:37] Speaker E: Teeth. [00:39:37] Speaker D: Teeth veneers. [00:39:39] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:39:40] Speaker B: Make your teeth straight, but then that's the only. [00:39:44] Speaker A: You can't do much, so. [00:39:45] Speaker B: Can you put makeup on yourself? [00:39:47] Speaker A: No, you ain't put no makeup on you. [00:39:49] Speaker B: You won't put makeup on. [00:39:50] Speaker A: Dale ain't put no makeup on. [00:39:51] Speaker B: J Rod. You won't put makeup on yourself to make yourself look different? [00:39:55] Speaker C: Nah. [00:39:58] Speaker B: Makeup on yourself to make your yourself look different. [00:40:02] Speaker D: No, I'm good. I'm not a. I'm not an 80s wrestler or. [00:40:09] Speaker C: Hey, look. [00:40:09] Speaker D: Hey, roll. [00:40:13] Speaker C: Hey, roll. [00:40:14] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:40:16] Speaker C: In some circles. In some circles you are 80s wrestler. [00:40:22] Speaker D: I forgot, brother. [00:40:23] Speaker C: We got like. We got like eight messages. We got eight messages. I gotta play them out. [00:40:31] Speaker B: Go ahead and play that out, man. [00:40:33] Speaker E: Well, I believe Gerard just took a tweak. I heard that glass at that table, Gerard. What you drinking, Gerard? [00:40:42] Speaker C: Why am I sitting at the table? I'm not drinking anything. [00:40:47] Speaker E: What I want to know is which one of you had the tertiary roll. [00:40:54] Speaker B: Oh, God. [00:40:55] Speaker C: Which one of y' all had. Which one y' all had? Tootsie Roll? [00:40:59] Speaker D: I don't like tissue rolls or sugar babies or none of that, so I don't know nothing about those. [00:41:05] Speaker C: Yeah, I don't know about that either. [00:41:08] Speaker E: I do want to take a moment to say hello to the audience members. Lovely. I see you. And sweet love, I see you too, sweetie. P. Vixen. I see you, Mike. I see you. [00:41:27] Speaker C: And we also have want to say what's up to auntie TT and nay. And yeah, I think them the ones that she didn't say. All right, back to the messages. [00:41:38] Speaker E: Yeah, maybe on the third or the fourth, when you know it's going down, we know it's going down. [00:41:46] Speaker C: Rolling on through. Shout out to the fine folks in the foundation and salute to the dream team. [00:41:52] Speaker D: Gerard. What's going on, G man? [00:41:54] Speaker C: How you been, Ro? What do you know? Well, it's got to be an awkward conversation. Hey, could you pass the bottomless salad and breadsticks? And are you ravaged by an std? Wow. Exactly. Anyway, exactly as you were, gentlemen. What's up, Dub? All right. [00:42:19] Speaker E: Hey, what's up, guys? [00:42:21] Speaker F: How are you? I personally don't mind someone shorter. Of course, I'm short, so everyone's taller than me. I'm five, two and a half. Don't laugh at my half because that half is real. I just came from the doctors not too long ago. Five, two and a half. Okay, now look, I get a little testy when you test my half. [00:42:41] Speaker B: But. [00:42:43] Speaker F: Yeah, I'm short anyway, so even if A guy is 5 4, he's 2 inches taller than me, you know, so it doesn't matter. But even if I was a tall woman, if he was a good man, I wouldn't care. I do have a friend that is is pretty tall and her husband is short and they got made fun of a lot because of it, so. But they're going strong. Everyone who made fun of them is divorced. They still married. [00:43:20] Speaker C: All right, what's up, melanated vixen? [00:43:25] Speaker E: So with the heels, I'm only saying when I put heels, I'm not a regular heel lady, because I'm tall. Anyways, I very rarely. Now that I'm knocking on 60, I don't wear heels really much anymore. I was just saying if I were to wear heels, I don't want somebody that's already short to be even shorter when I put on heels. So anywho, and to the being swallowed thing, that is for me to know and for you to never to find out. Of course I get some love in that area, but I won't go into details. Yeah, I'm not a makeup person. I never have been. I've never gone to beauty stores and highly gotten the blushes, the foundations, and the things that you have to layer, layer, layer. To get you looking the way you want. I'm a basic eyelash eyeliner. That is all I wear. Even my boyfriend says just wear that little bit of eyelash makeup and liner. No blush, no powder. I want to see your natural beauty. Beautiful stuff. [00:44:57] Speaker F: Now I know you guys are talking general when you're talking about makeup and the fake nails and hairs and stuff like that, but there is a movement among women where they're rolling back all of that mess. Not a lot of women that I know in my area, my set wear makeup like me. I don't wear any makeup. I'm wearing makeup at all. First of all, I am a follower of the most high. So, you know, when you start reading these books and find out where makeup came from, from the Fallen Angels, I was cool on that. I'm not gonna be wearing that. I wasn't a big makeup girly anyway, so I had no problem with that. I, you know, never wore fake nails I think once in life and just about destroyed my nails. I was done. So there is a movement, some women who are pushing back against that fake, you know, BBL cover girl type. [00:45:58] Speaker E: Oh, many sounds. I didn't see you. You came in after I said the clip Ntt in bud. I dub. I see you. I see. Hey. [00:46:10] Speaker G: Hey. How's everyone doing? Happy weekend. Let's see. Things you should know about your girlfriend boyfriend before you date them. Oh if they have a relationship with their parents or not and if it's a good relationship with their parents or not. I would say one of my worst relationships was when he did not have a good relationship with his mother. And it turned him into a completely different person. And I didn't understand why he was the way he was until I saw the way he reacted and communicated to his mom. And then everything made a lot of sense. [00:46:59] Speaker C: I would probably say that is a red flag. But what about the, the guy. I guess the guys that are like, they have that different type of relationship with their mom, the mama's boys or whatever. Because I, you know, I hear a lot of women, they don't like that end of the spectrum also. [00:47:30] Speaker D: So do you feel like it's like a, a level to a, to a mama's boy? [00:47:37] Speaker C: I don't know. Because I mean. Yeah, well on that and yeah, that part of the spectrum. Yeah. Because how you treat your mom is how you treat other, you know, you, I guess treat other women. So as far as us, I guess. [00:47:57] Speaker D: I mean double edged sword would be swore to that would be to how you said like how you Treat your, Your lady. The other side to that would be, well, you care more about your mom than what you do about, you know, her. [00:48:14] Speaker C: That kind of. But see, that kind of falls under, like, you know, saying most dudes that are mama's boys or whatever, they. They put their mom above the person that they're seeing, you know what I'm saying? So, like, okay, me and you, you know what I'm saying, we have that happy medium with our mom. We don't put our mom above anybody that we're seeing, but she knows, you know what I'm saying, where she is with, with us, you know what I'm saying? Like, yeah, we do. We. You know what I'm saying, as sons, we. We do what we supposed to do, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, but we don't let us. [00:48:54] Speaker D: That's why I asked the question. Because I like. [00:48:55] Speaker C: Well, yeah, but we don't let our mom dictate who we. Who she feel like we should see. Yeah, yeah, yeah. [00:49:04] Speaker D: Not only who we dating, but how that relationship is and everything nuances within it. [00:49:10] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah, I got you. [00:49:11] Speaker D: So that's why, that's why. Because I had like, what she said, because it's like, okay, so to go deeper with it, is there a level for. On the, on the. For a female dealing with a guy like that? Do they see it like, no matter what, it's a flat rate mama's boy, or do you. Or do they see a level with it? You know? So that's why I asked the question. [00:49:33] Speaker C: I mean, I would. I mean, I think you. They should, they should be able to see a level with it because. Because how they would react with their mom versus how they react with them. So, you know, if it's one of them where the guy's mom has a key to the place, to him and the person he's seeing and Sharon and she just pops up, don't call first, nothing. She just pops up. You know what I'm saying? [00:50:00] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:50:01] Speaker C: And he doesn't, he doesn't correct it. So. But I feel like, yeah, I mean, like I said, with us, it's like that we right there, the happy medium, like we not mama's boys. But you know what I'm saying, You know, if our mom needs something, then we know we need to, you know what I'm saying? We go take care of it. But it's one of those things where she doesn't intervene in anything that we do because you know how she, you know, mom. You know how mom is. You Know what I'm saying? She cool with whoever we're dealing with until they up with us. And once they up with us. Yeah, well, I'm saying on my side. No, I'm not gonna speak for both of us. I'm saying on my side. No, on my side. [00:50:49] Speaker D: But no, I'm just saying just in general, because. No, because you know what? Because to your point, when you said. We said about the key. Because, like, yeah, I gave her a key to the apartment. And. And like, you said, she wouldn't just pop up even though she had the key. No, she still called. She wouldn't even take. She would call me like, hey, look, tomorrow. Such as time I made. I gotta do such and such, kill some time. I mean, swing by. That's cool. But then, you know, so that's what too. Like you said, not only with us as sons, you also got. The mom is like. It just. It hit different, you know, to, like, what you were saying, you know, so even. Even with that, like, she would let you know before, she just. She never just randomly popped up so you could still give it a key. And it wasn't like a. It wasn't like a, hey, look, no matter who my son is with, I'm still the end all, be all type, I guess. [00:51:54] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:51:56] Speaker D: But then to the ladies, that was just one of those questions. Yeah, I got you. [00:52:00] Speaker C: Yeah, you'll take the messages because we got a bunch of them. [00:52:03] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:52:05] Speaker H: Hi, guys. How are you doing? And hello, listeners, how you guys doing as well? I'm not asking anyone on the first date or the second date or even the third date about any STDs, but what I will. What we will have a discussion on is when it's time for us to, you know, exchange those body parts. You know what I'm saying? But anywho, it's time for us to do our thing. We. We're both going to go get checked now. If you don't want to provide me with your doctor statement and I provide you with mine, then I'll holla at you. We can still be friends, though, you know. Amen and amen again. [00:52:50] Speaker D: Makes sense. Make sure these checks and balances is in place. [00:52:55] Speaker H: And y' all have to understand what Cali girl is saying is the truth, because I was with her in Atlanta and we had to make her put on makeup. Okay. But she is definitely, you know, not a makeup kind of lady, but she's beautiful. I don't wear makeup either. I just wear lip gloss. [00:53:17] Speaker E: That's it. [00:53:18] Speaker H: And sometimes I'll put some eyeliner on, but not under my eyelids. They just on my eyebrows to darken them a little bit more, you know, that's it. [00:53:32] Speaker D: Gentlemen, what's good in the hood? [00:53:34] Speaker C: Men assigns things you should know about your girlfriend before you date them. Do you have corns on your feet. [00:53:47] Speaker D: That matter? Especially when you like rubbing against each other, getting that big spoon, a little spoon going on. I can see that. Can't have no cuddles. [00:53:59] Speaker E: So, thoughts? Is there a difference between being mama's boy and a daddy's girl? Which one's worse? [00:54:12] Speaker D: That's a good question. Which one is? [00:54:14] Speaker C: Yeah, it is. [00:54:15] Speaker D: That's a. That's question. I tell you what, let's go ahead and bang these out real quick. We can roll back to what Cali said. [00:54:24] Speaker C: Okay. [00:54:24] Speaker D: Good ass question. [00:54:25] Speaker G: I will never understand the bbls and the fake eyelashes and the different color hair and the braids down to your ankles and all that stuff. I mean, I grew up in the 90s. I understand people are going to do what they want to do and that's cool. But at the same time, makeup is supposed to enhance your looks, not take over your whole face. You're not supposed to look like you auditioning for the Shrine Circus, you know, it's supposed to enhance your look. [00:54:58] Speaker A: Oh, my God. [00:55:02] Speaker D: They just stepped into the Universal Soul Circus. [00:55:05] Speaker C: Wow. [00:55:07] Speaker F: Now, I love a good mama's boy. Now, I don't like a neurotic mama's boy. That's different. That's a different type of feeling. It's a little cray cray. But I love a good mama's boy because if they treat their mama well, they don't treat you well. You know how they treat women in their life. Show you how you're going to be treated in his life. So, yeah, no, I have no problems with mama boy, as long as it's not Norman Bates. You know. [00:55:39] Speaker H: There is absolutely a level to being a mother's boy. My son is a mama's boy, you know, but he don't put me before his relationship with this girl. But his girl knows that, hey, he's gonna do for his mom if he needs to. But I always try to stay out of their business anyway because my son is 32. 32. He'll be 33 this year. [00:56:06] Speaker E: Yep. [00:56:07] Speaker H: So has a nice little wife. I mean, they good. I don't get in their business. I don't do too much, you know what I'm saying? But she knows he loves his mom. Mom and everybody else does too. He'll tell his mama, too. Hey, mom, that's not your. [00:56:30] Speaker E: Okay, okay. [00:56:31] Speaker H: All right, son, you right. Hey, man in a. [00:56:35] Speaker B: Well, the only person I know. [00:56:36] Speaker A: We know. We know the word of God. [00:56:40] Speaker B: Hey, hey, we. [00:56:43] Speaker A: We arguing over. [00:56:44] Speaker C: Yo, y' all good. [00:56:47] Speaker A: Go ahead. [00:56:47] Speaker D: All right, we got. All right, we got. We got two more, y' all. We got two more. Hold on. [00:56:51] Speaker C: All right, Cali, girl, what's going on? You know what? [00:57:15] Speaker D: Hey, Min. Min, send that message back again because we did not hear everything you were saying after. Hey, Cali, girl, what's going on? If you had anything else. [00:57:28] Speaker C: I wasn't. For sure. [00:57:29] Speaker D: Oh, Oh. I a catch it. All right, hold on. [00:57:32] Speaker A: Hold on, y' all. [00:57:33] Speaker D: We got two more that we can run it. [00:57:35] Speaker E: I love you, TT thank you for that. Yes. They had to put a lot of makeup on me. We need to catch. Do some. Catch that. TT I got some updates for you. Love you. I agree with you, Auntie T.T. my son is like that. Well, first of all, my boyfriend, I wouldn't consider him a mama's boy, but the way he respects his mother is also the way he respects. He has never been disrespectful towards me in any way. And with my son, I don't come in between, you know, him being on me more so than, you know, taking care of his wife. I love his wife. And. But I also know that my son will be there for me if I need him, but I step back when it comes to him and his wife. So he's there. If I need him, he's there. [00:58:46] Speaker C: All right. That was all. That was all messages, right? Everybody got. [00:58:57] Speaker D: It was. Oh, no. [00:58:58] Speaker C: Okay, okay. [00:58:59] Speaker D: I'm saying. Yeah, I was a delay there. [00:59:01] Speaker C: Oh, okay. [00:59:03] Speaker D: But, yeah, you know what I feel. You know what? That's. I think that that's. To what you were saying, Gerard? I feel like that's us, if not overstepping to where, like, it's like, you know what? You my lady, your place is right beside me. Because like. Like, more always said, hey, look, it's not a behind or in front. We are side by side. So you. You right there with me. But if my mama needs something like, that's. I. I gotta go there. But there's no different to where. Like, if. If we're in a relationship and your mom needs something, I'm right there. [00:59:49] Speaker A: To. [00:59:50] Speaker D: Do for your mom the same way I'm gonna do for my mom. And I expect you to move accordingly as well, if that makes sense. Oh, I hope that makes sense. [00:59:58] Speaker C: No, no, no, it makes sense. You know, yeah, but to go back and answer that. No. Well, I'll say to go back and ask the other question. Like, I think it was. Which one is. I think it was Cali's question. I think which one is worse, a mama's boy or a daddy's girl? [01:00:20] Speaker D: Yeah, it was Kelly. [01:00:23] Speaker C: Yeah. I don't know. It is. I think with what is right with a daddy's girl, they're gonna. The expectation is like, whatever the her dad did for her, then, isn't it? Like, the expectation is for that guy that she's with to be able to. [01:00:47] Speaker D: Yeah. [01:00:48] Speaker C: Do the same thing. [01:00:49] Speaker D: Do the same. [01:00:51] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:00:52] Speaker E: Oh, I don't know. [01:00:54] Speaker D: To where. It's like, you know, he took care of. He took care of the house. Hey, look, I got you. Yeah, but it's like sometimes it's like you can't. You can't help the situation that you're placed in. [01:01:06] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:01:06] Speaker D: You know, you do have those. And this goes both ways for male and female. But since we going with, you know, what Cali said, in this situation, we're looking at. But that is a girl. So for if you with a guy that he trying the best that he could do, and that is the best he could do, he's not gonna meet that expectation. Like, it's just not gonna happen, you know? So now is that. That now you are at that crossroad to where what are you gonna do? As in, he's a nice guy, he's trying his best, he's grinding. It's just not meeting the expectations that you got based off of how your dad said, hey, look, this is what I did for your mom. This is what you should expect from a guy to do for you. And it's just sometimes, you know, you get hit with the real world. [01:02:00] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:02:00] Speaker D: And in the real world, like, hey, look, we. You know, you. Both of y' all make our bills that both of y' all need to cover, you know? [01:02:15] Speaker C: So which one you think is worse, though? Because I was you. I feel like. I feel like the. I'mma say the mama's boy is probably worse. [01:02:30] Speaker A: What the hell you just say? [01:02:32] Speaker C: I think. [01:02:35] Speaker B: And so am I. [01:02:40] Speaker C: Look, look, look. What we not. What we not gonna do is we. Well, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Cuz normally I sit in my corner. Normally I. Normally I sit in my corner and I don't say anything. Y' all came in to the. To the ass end of the conversation, and y' all catch the last thing I said, and y' all feel offended. Yeah. All the. That y' all said to me in. [01:03:04] Speaker B: The last two hours with you in it. [01:03:10] Speaker A: What's up? [01:03:11] Speaker C: You know what? At this point, you too up to do that, so I ain't gotta worry about that. [01:03:16] Speaker A: No, I don't play soldier. [01:03:19] Speaker B: What that. [01:03:19] Speaker C: What's that? Once they had. Once that had turned sideways, I ain't got to worry about nothing. [01:03:28] Speaker B: No, he wasn't talking to me. He was talking to y' all, too. I'm good. No, I'm good. Look, I never answered the question, but you did. [01:03:42] Speaker C: Let me tell y' all something. [01:03:44] Speaker B: Before y' all. [01:03:46] Speaker C: Before y' all know, before y' all jump into a conversation. No, no, no. Before y' all jump into a conversation, before y' all jump into a conversation that y' all was not privy to. [01:03:58] Speaker A: Why would we. [01:03:59] Speaker C: Before y' all say y' all. No, no. Before y' all say, y' all gotta think about the definition of what a mama's boy is. [01:04:06] Speaker A: We mama's boys. Regarding a definition. [01:04:10] Speaker C: Y' all don't. Y' all don't know what definition is. [01:04:17] Speaker A: Nope. [01:04:17] Speaker C: Y' all taking it. No, y' all taking it like. Y' all taking it like if you had to. If you had to pick a parent, yo, you favor your mom. No, a mama's boy is somebody that put their mom above the person that they're with. [01:04:31] Speaker B: Okay. Right. [01:04:33] Speaker C: Know the definition. Know the definition. Before y' all come at me, they'll say, right. Don't even know. Don't even know the damn definition. And already, guns blazing, the. [01:04:48] Speaker A: You talking about what I'm talking about. [01:04:53] Speaker C: Y' all make it seem like. Y' all make it seem like I don't give a. About my mama. What you talking about, But I'm not a mama's boy. [01:05:03] Speaker A: I'm still mad. [01:05:04] Speaker B: I think every single person. [01:05:06] Speaker A: Look, let me. [01:05:07] Speaker B: Let me tell y' all this, man. This from gman. I think that every single person care a lot about their mom. You know what I'm saying? [01:05:15] Speaker C: Exactly. But there is a fine line. [01:05:20] Speaker B: Some of somebody. Someone. Some of us already lost our parents and all our mom and all this stuff like that. And we appreciate the moms that stole here. [01:05:29] Speaker D: Yes. [01:05:30] Speaker B: For the rest of the. So for me personally, figures. And the mom. Mom figure, you know? So at the end of the day, man, like, that's a. For me personally, that's a touchy feeling for me because I lost my mom. We lost our mom. [01:05:44] Speaker D: Yeah. [01:05:45] Speaker B: I mean, three of us here. Yeah. [01:05:47] Speaker A: So my mama's my baby now. [01:05:49] Speaker B: So that's my baby. So when y' all go left like that, I'm like, oh, Lord, what just happened? [01:05:54] Speaker A: Yeah, that's my baby right there. Hey. [01:05:58] Speaker B: Yeah, but why y' all want to turn the red car over though? [01:06:03] Speaker A: Look, look, Jiggle, we gotta turn your car over. [01:06:08] Speaker B: I can't let y' all. [01:06:09] Speaker C: Okay, first off, first off, like I said, five, like I said two minutes ago. Know the definition of what a mama's boy is before you come for me. That's the difference. You can love your mom but not be a mama's boy. Because a mama's boy is a. Is. Is a derogatory word that is used for someone who is dependent on his mother, especially at an age when he is expected to be self reliant. That is not you. [01:06:39] Speaker E: Right? [01:06:39] Speaker B: So that means. [01:06:40] Speaker C: I'm not talking about y' all. Know the definition before y' all come for me. Know that. That's all I'm asking. Know the definition before you come for me. They got nothing to do with if. If you love your mom or don't love your mom. That's not what I'm saying. [01:07:00] Speaker B: So we hear you. [01:07:02] Speaker A: We. We hear you, Jigalo. [01:07:04] Speaker B: So. So at the end of the day. [01:07:06] Speaker A: I'm trying to apologize. Go ahead, G. [01:07:11] Speaker C: Flipping. Somebody call over. Nobody call over. [01:07:17] Speaker A: What you got for G. Make it make me feel better. [01:07:34] Speaker D: Then. [01:07:34] Speaker B: I'm the confused one. I'm the one who keep the stuff going. Look, y' all just had it go to different. [01:07:47] Speaker A: You, you, mama and my. And grandma. [01:07:51] Speaker B: I don't know what just happened. What just happened? [01:07:56] Speaker C: I keep saying you look for the smoke, you gonna damn sure find the fire right here. Because I. You gotta know the definition of what a mama's boy is. So until you know the definition, then don't come for me. Don't come for me. [01:08:15] Speaker B: There's a difference. [01:08:15] Speaker C: There's a difference between loving your mom. I understand that. There is a difference. There is a fine line. [01:08:24] Speaker B: What's going on? What just happened tonight? No, we just happened. [01:08:28] Speaker A: Explain what a mama's boy is. [01:08:30] Speaker B: No, no, no, no. Because I want to know what just happened to Snow. Because we just. We just took a whole leftist now. G. G, no, no, no, no. [01:08:38] Speaker A: What just happened? [01:08:43] Speaker B: Oh, I need to read it back. [01:08:45] Speaker D: In my side hurting. [01:08:49] Speaker A: I'm telling you. Me. No, we need. [01:08:51] Speaker B: No, no. What is going on, y' all. What just happened? Because I need to figure out what's going on. [01:08:59] Speaker A: Our pastors are mama's boy and I love him. [01:09:02] Speaker B: No, no, this is GMAN talking. I am right now, the Mediator. What the hell just happened this night? [01:09:10] Speaker A: G, you was born in the grandmama's. [01:09:13] Speaker B: I understand that, but what just. What just happened? We just trying to identify clarification. No, but I just. Cuz everybody getting hyped and jiggle up. [01:09:23] Speaker A: Well, that's all right. [01:09:24] Speaker D: We. [01:09:24] Speaker A: Me. We got hot testosterone and we going. [01:09:28] Speaker B: To have a drink of liquor and. [01:09:29] Speaker C: We gonna fix it. [01:09:30] Speaker A: Yeah, everything's all right. Yeah, everything's all right. Hey. [01:09:47] Speaker D: Basically, I think. I think basically we're looking at here is if I'm. I'm. I'm assuming. So I could be wrong. As. As. As our mom always say, when you assume, you only make an ass out of yourself. So I'm assuming you and me. And that is basically when you look at the mom. When you look at the. The mama's boy joint, you're gonna say, it's gonna be like, all right, your mama gonna go cover you. As in, you can't depend on yourself to cover your bills. If you got kids, you can't. You can't do anything. So you leaning towards your mom to cover you in a ex. In. In a extra way that a mother should. So you're gonna leave more. You're gonna leave more. More on your mom than what you would with your partner to help balance you out. [01:10:55] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:10:56] Speaker D: So then I think that's where it is to where it's like. So now you look at the flip side of it is you can be a mama's boy without needing that. And I think that's what that defined us. Like. Yeah, Dale. Dale is standalone. He love his mama. He a mama's boy. Same thing you say. Same thing you say. Hey, look. Hey, look, I'm We. We mama's boy, but our mama does not carry us through. You know what I mean? So. So that's what it is, you know? [01:11:26] Speaker B: So. [01:11:27] Speaker D: So that's where you look at. Yeah, so. So then. So that's why. That's why. It's the. It's the. It's the. It's the definition of the shift that separates it, you know? So. So you know, like, that's the definition of how people look at a mama's boy and somebody like, oh, look, he a mama's boy. He need his mama for everything to. We're like, us. [01:11:50] Speaker B: Us. We. [01:11:51] Speaker D: We are classified as a mama because we feel like. Because our mama reigns supreme. But yes, sir, if you. But. But then you. You have a wife, you gotta. You have a girlfriend or whatever, it's like, hey, look, you are my equal. But if my mama needs something, I'm there for my mama. [01:12:10] Speaker A: Yes, sir. [01:12:10] Speaker D: The same way she's there for me. And I will hope that the person I'm with would do the same. Because if your mama needs something, I shouldn't be the one to jump out my seat to cover your mama while, while I'm looking at you sitting down. And now I'm like, damn, baby, you just gonna, you ain't. Why you ain't hopping up? But it's not, it's not a. It's not a dependent thing. So I think that's where the separation in that term. [01:12:37] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:12:37] Speaker A: Rodolph, you know, ever been. I, I agree with. He couldn't have been put in it better than what you said there. He couldn't. That's right. And that's what, how you explain it, is our definition of a mama's boy. You couldn't have put it any better than that. No, sir. It won't happen. [01:12:57] Speaker D: Yeah. So then, so, so now when we look at it. Yes. [01:13:00] Speaker B: We are all. [01:13:01] Speaker D: We, we are that other classification of a mama's boy. [01:13:06] Speaker A: Yes. [01:13:06] Speaker D: You know, like, like we're not, we're not, we're not dependent on our mama to pay our bills and guide us through life. [01:13:12] Speaker A: No, no. [01:13:13] Speaker D: In this, in this, in this second chapter to where like some people feel like the, the classic definition of a mama's boy is. That's what that is. [01:13:21] Speaker A: Exactly. Exactly. So. So, Gerard, you, you, you were right too, my brother. [01:13:28] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:13:28] Speaker A: So, hey, we, we got no beef against you. We love you. [01:13:33] Speaker C: Oh, no, it was never. That's the thing, that's the thing with us. We can have a disagreement and it not. It's gonna be what. You know what I'm saying? Like, it's. Nobody's up, like nobody's really upset. It was just one of those. I was trying to explain that there is a deeper meaning to what a mama's boy is. [01:13:55] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:13:56] Speaker C: That like you have the far end of the spectrum of that. That's not y' all. [01:14:02] Speaker A: Yes. May I ask you something, Gerard? [01:14:05] Speaker C: Huh? [01:14:05] Speaker A: Can I ask you something? You are. You are a gigolo. So how are you. What do you know about being a mama's boy? [01:14:15] Speaker C: I say what. What are you talking about? No, I'm not. No, I'm not. No. All I do is go to work and go home. That's all I do. [01:14:26] Speaker A: Yeah, you. [01:14:28] Speaker B: You work. [01:14:29] Speaker A: You work. We believe it. You go to work, you go home. Break these females hearts. Break these females hearts. [01:14:40] Speaker C: I don't know what you're talking About. [01:14:42] Speaker A: Did you leave that out? [01:14:45] Speaker C: I just go to work and go home. I don't break nobody heart. I don't know what you're talking about, sir. [01:14:51] Speaker A: Come on. [01:14:53] Speaker C: No. [01:14:53] Speaker A: Come on. Hey, hey. [01:14:55] Speaker C: No. [01:14:55] Speaker A: Well, go home, go to work, break hearts. Go home, go to work, break. No, it's a cycle. [01:15:06] Speaker C: I don't know what cycle y' all talking about. All I do is go to work, go home and spend time and spend time with my, with my great granddaughter. With my granddaughter. You know what I'm saying? So that's all I do. [01:15:18] Speaker A: Hey. That's all. Have brothers. Hey, but what about the breaking hearts in between that? [01:15:24] Speaker C: I don't know nothing about that. I don't. I don't know. [01:15:28] Speaker A: We won't push the agenda then. If you had a loss, you know we had a loss. But women be wary. The jigalo is on the prow. You better watch out what you say. [01:15:46] Speaker B: That's it. And I'm telling you why. [01:15:49] Speaker A: And I'm telling you why. [01:15:50] Speaker B: Brothers, bro, like I said, again, I want people to understand that again, this podcast is just strictly for entertainment and information. Again, I am so grateful to be a part of this run and tell it podcast. I don't even have the words. Like I said, there is not enough love that I can express for all to put my podcast, podcast family and my brothers again. I love them again, like I said. And when we get ready for final thoughts, I got a quick statement and I'll be out. [01:16:21] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:16:22] Speaker D: Hey now, you good, baby. [01:16:24] Speaker B: Call us in. [01:16:25] Speaker D: We got, we got six more. Yeah. [01:16:27] Speaker B: Thank you. [01:16:28] Speaker D: Oh, yeah. [01:16:29] Speaker A: Hey. [01:16:30] Speaker B: Oh yeah. [01:16:30] Speaker D: We got, we got six more. I'm gonna go ahead and run them. [01:16:35] Speaker A: Because they're important to us. [01:16:38] Speaker D: Oh, yeah, right. [01:16:40] Speaker E: Because with the daughter and the father, it's a girl, the girl's needs and the girls wants and the girls being pampered. So if the father over does that, you know, it's the father showing the love to the daughter. But you could overdo that and then that's damaging to her because then she's going to. To go out in the world and expect the same treatment. The overabundance of I bow to you, I do everything to you. And then she's going to demand it. She's going to put her foot down and demand it. But with the son to the mother, the, the mother doesn't do that to the son. It's. It's like the. Who is that guy? I can't remember. But anyways. [01:17:41] Speaker D: Hold on, fellas. Hold on, fellas. Let's run all. And then we can get everybody's thoughts in. [01:17:45] Speaker E: I think more of the stories with the. The son and the mother is the. [01:17:51] Speaker C: The. [01:17:51] Speaker E: They're tormenting each other. I mean, you know what I mean? Like, I think the son's begging for the attention. And some stories, in some scenarios, the son is mentally begging for the attention and the mother's not giving it to him. Damaging relationship, damaged relationships, you know what I mean? Like, it could be bad either way. Boy, y' all see that Gerard came at them boys with the whip. Got you, y' all. We all mute too long, and then he wanted to unmute and say what you had to say. Gerard got y' all ass. Didn't. [01:18:36] Speaker B: Hey, hey, hey. [01:18:38] Speaker G: I don't think there's. [01:18:41] Speaker B: Stop the madness, Cali. Girl with your peanut butter pants. [01:18:45] Speaker D: Oh, shoot. [01:18:47] Speaker G: I don't think there's anything wrong with quote, unquote, mama's boys. I mean, boys. It's known that boys love their moms a lot, okay? Just like it's known that girls are daddy's girls. Girls love their dads a lot. [01:19:00] Speaker E: That's. [01:19:00] Speaker G: That's a normal thing, right? But I think the issue comes with mama boys is because women, they know that their boys love them a lot, but they don't hold them accountable to the standards that the world is going to hold these boys to. You can be a good mom, and you can know that your son loves you, and you can love him just as much as he loves you. And y' all can hang out and do whatever. Whatever y' all do, but you have to teach him that the world is going to treat him like a man. And he has to understand the way men operate in this world. You can't hold his hand during everything. You have to let him do some things on his own, make him do some things that men are going to do later on in life, because one day he's going to have a family. He's going to be the husband. [01:19:48] Speaker E: True news flash, gman, y' all. Y' all seriously need to fix your mic because we can't hear a word you guys are saying. You sound so robotic. You sound like you stuck your finger in the socket and you're getting electrocuted. You can't hear half of the stuff you saying. [01:20:11] Speaker H: I'm at work. I can't hear everything y' all talking about because I work on the phone, so I have people in my ear, and I'm still trying to listen to y' all, too. But what I do want to say is that I think the mama's boy is worse than the daddy's little girl because, you know, it's supposed to be daddy's little girl until that man come along. That man. That woman is gonna automatically fall in love with her man and stop, you know, doing as much as she used to do with that. But those dads, those mama's boys, it's different. Those, like, really crazy mama boys do whatever their mama say. She be all in a relationship and stuff and trying to rule. And no, you not letting your, your son grow up and be a man. That's. That's a totally different type of mama's boy for me. And I don't want that ever. Amen. In a minute. [01:21:10] Speaker B: Well, you, you know. Well, go ahead. Go ahead. You got one more. My bad, guys. [01:21:16] Speaker D: Oh, I thought it was the last one. That was the last one. Oh, wait a minute. [01:21:21] Speaker B: We got one more. [01:21:22] Speaker C: Got one more. [01:21:24] Speaker D: All right. That was on me. [01:21:26] Speaker C: If a woman puts her father over me, I'mma start dating a mama. [01:21:32] Speaker D: It's like the royal family. [01:21:47] Speaker B: For some of us. It's not wrong to be mamas, but you know what I'm saying? Because you know, you. When you. Some, some people, some of us been raised with just single mom and all this stuff. So it's a mama boy. Especially, Especially if you two girls and one guy, you're gonna be a mama boy and all that stuff like that. So, I mean, the definition of mama boy is a little different for some. Yeah, I'm saying, but like, I'm a mama boy because my, my, my sisters, I got three sisters and all this stuff like that, and I'm the only one. So I was a mama's boy because she made sure that. She said, you gotta go to, you gotta go school, you gotta do this, you gotta do that. And she made sure that, even though she, she made sure that the girls were good, but she made sure that I was good too. I had my own room. My sister, the older sister had her own room, but the other two middle sisters had the room together. You know what I'm saying? So, I mean, at the end of the day, mama's boy can actually go a long way. According to who. Who. Look at it. You know what I mean? [01:22:56] Speaker D: Yes. [01:22:57] Speaker B: But, yeah, I'm a mama's boy. [01:22:59] Speaker A: Yes. So, G man, Dale, JP we admit we're mama's boys. Hey. But we're strong men. But we're also mama's boys. Thought about it. [01:23:16] Speaker B: We need to make a logo. Mama's boy underwear. [01:23:19] Speaker A: Mama's boy Underwear. [01:23:21] Speaker D: Oh Lord. [01:23:25] Speaker A: Yeah, but you always on our break. [01:23:30] Speaker B: Us are very good to. I want to share this before we turn it loose. And it might be considered my final thought. I want fathers to understand that again. I understand, you know, what the young lady was saying about the, the daddy's little girls. But like I said, we set the standards. When we slack off on our daughters and loving them, paying them attention, we set the bar. [01:23:56] Speaker D: That's right. [01:23:56] Speaker B: And we have to be mindful. Mindful that again, you know, you know, I want a man to do better for my daughter than I did. [01:24:04] Speaker C: That's right. [01:24:04] Speaker B: That's right. You know, I want you to love her more do the better than I do. In regards to a mother's love, it's unconditional. I could do the worst, love the worst. But again, it's that mother's love. So like I said, I'm grateful for my mom. I said a high standing for my daughter. And I think all fathers choose. [01:24:27] Speaker C: That's right. [01:24:31] Speaker D: Yeah. Yeah, I will say that. I don't know, I still feel the same way as far as being like a mom's boy. And I could be out of line for saying it. I feel like it's still the same for all of us that you know their mother's love and what it is to us. But at the same time I feel like it isn't a dependency type deal. And I think that sometimes that's what it's viewed as, is a dependency. You know, I feel like that you can be either, either it's a. You was brought up in a single parent home or dual parent home. That I don't think that that is going to shift if you're going to be a mama's boy or not or how you view your mom. I think that is, it's going to be equally balanced. You know, it just depends on, on the person and what you get from what is being instilled in, into you, you know. But I feel like, you know, we, we all are equal in, in saying that, you know, you gotta, you have to be there for, for your mom no matter what. And I feel like that's right for me. I mean like for me, for me personally, I do judge you if I'm, if, if I'm in a relationship with you and I see how you treat your mom, I'm not gonna lie, I will judge you by that. You know, I don't, I don't care if your mom call you and say, hey, I need a, hey, can you bring me some milk? Hey, look, we all have things going on, so we all be like, oh my goodness, I gotta go do this. I've caught myself. I've caught myself doing it too. You literally just two days ago, I did the same thing. [01:26:34] Speaker A: But you don't. [01:26:36] Speaker D: Please don't. But you know what? Oh no. Oh no. Oh no. But, but this is the thing though. It's one thing when you say it, but do you actually do it? Because internally you're still going to do it. Yeah, the first thing, the first, the first thing our mama said to me was like, she said, hey, I know you upset. And she laughs. She said, but you know what? I still want this. And we both laugh because she know it's not about her. I treat everybody equally. I just don't like last minute stuff no matter what. But because the person that I am and how her and our dad instill in us, I'm gonna do it for you, no matter what. [01:27:17] Speaker B: That's right. [01:27:18] Speaker D: I'm still gonna do it because I, I rock with you. So you. [01:27:25] Speaker B: You know, Ro, I can honestly tell you this, you and Jarrod really, really take care of your mom. So even though your dad's not here, you guys do a wonderful job of actually being. Being that. [01:27:40] Speaker D: You know what I'm saying? [01:27:41] Speaker B: So I appreciate you guys because I see it from you guys, I see what y' all do, you know what I'm saying? Gerard, the other day when he was coming to my house, his mom fire call and all that stuff like that, Gerard was making sure that the mom was okay. When you need mom, I got you. [01:27:56] Speaker E: That's the same thing that all of. [01:27:58] Speaker B: Us need to do, you know what I'm saying? And I understand that it's kind of. Look at this guy right here. Why you got the TV on? Every time I talk, every time I talk, something happened. So this seemed like, it seemed like he set me up, but only but on a serious note, like you guys got your mom here and all that stuff like that. And I know that sometimes when they, when they ask questions about certain stuff, you sitting there, you like, oh my goodness. You know what I'm saying? But cherish that moment, man, because like, like I miss my mom. And I know they'll do J people. But you guys doing a wonderful job of actually doing the things that look. [01:28:53] Speaker D: Look what you do today, you're supposed. [01:28:55] Speaker B: To work today, but you took off, you know what I'm saying? You took off because your mom had needed you. So you did, you did your part, you know what I'm saying? So when you sit there and you see, say that your mom, when she call and she says this or that, think about it. It's appreciation. At the end of the day, she appreciate that. Look, time out. Time out. Time out. Time, time. [01:29:25] Speaker D: We can't do this. [01:29:26] Speaker B: We cannot do this. We cannot do this tonight. We cannot do this. I mean, look. No, you ain't. Whiskey. No, I understand. I'm stuck away, too. Look, I'm sitting. I'm trying to have conversation. No, I'm talking. Hey, J Rock. [01:29:48] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:29:49] Speaker B: You see what's going on right here? I'm saying, am I wrong? [01:29:52] Speaker D: Am I wrong? [01:30:07] Speaker B: No, he did not. I never seen. I never see. I never see. No, no, I never. No, no, no. I'm on J Rod. [01:30:17] Speaker C: I'm. [01:30:17] Speaker B: I'm helping Gerard tonight because Gerard did not bring nobody out. Here we go. [01:30:26] Speaker C: Here we go. Here we go. I knew it. I knew it. [01:30:30] Speaker B: I knew he did not do it. And I know for a fact. [01:30:36] Speaker A: I. [01:30:36] Speaker C: Swear that's a backhanded. I swear that's a backhand compliment because we was not talking about this on the show. We was talking about this before the show. I appreciate you having my back, but here we go. Here we go. Here we go. [01:30:55] Speaker A: But. [01:30:55] Speaker D: Here we go. [01:30:57] Speaker B: But I mean, going back to you guys, I mean, like. I mean, continue on doing. I mean, because a lot of people lost their mom and all this, y' all continue on doing what y' all doing because I. I see it. [01:31:07] Speaker A: Yes. [01:31:08] Speaker B: And a lot of other people see it. [01:31:09] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:31:09] Speaker B: And a lot of other people might be jealous because y' all doing what y' all doing. [01:31:13] Speaker D: Yes. You know what I'm saying? [01:31:14] Speaker A: Yes, sir. Hey, whoa, whoa. [01:31:17] Speaker B: Oh, I'm done. [01:31:22] Speaker D: Just look, look. [01:31:23] Speaker A: Look to you, road dog. [01:31:24] Speaker E: Look to. [01:31:25] Speaker B: Look to you. Look to your right. J.P. j.P. Buck naked. I'm done. [01:31:29] Speaker A: He buck naked. I'm done. [01:31:31] Speaker B: Look, I'm done. I can't. [01:31:34] Speaker D: I'm walking out. [01:31:35] Speaker B: This joker bucking out here. [01:31:39] Speaker E: I can't. [01:31:40] Speaker B: What? [01:31:43] Speaker C: Oh, hell. [01:31:44] Speaker B: Oh. [01:31:47] Speaker C: Bro, you got. Bro, you got a final thought. Oh, you already did yours. [01:31:55] Speaker D: I will be heard tonight. [01:31:59] Speaker B: What the heck is going on tonight? Bobby Brown ain't got nothing on his stomach. [01:32:08] Speaker C: Oh, wow. Wow. So anybody got any final thoughts before we close out? [01:32:20] Speaker D: Let me tell you something. You know, I'm saying, hey, look, when you. When you see the bark falling from the trees, don't you worry about what? [01:32:33] Speaker E: What? [01:32:34] Speaker D: Hey, look, I'm in the middle of something. You saying that. I look out the right side, I see G man bent over, laughing. [01:32:41] Speaker A: But like, what we doing? [01:32:43] Speaker D: Hey, look, don't make G man laugh. [01:32:45] Speaker A: Let me. [01:32:46] Speaker D: Let me. Let me say this. [01:32:48] Speaker C: Go ahead, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead. [01:32:50] Speaker D: Now I gotta start all the way over again. You know, this is off the cuff, so it's not gonna be verbatim. So listen, as you look to the left and you see that tree bark falling, falling down, don't worry about the maple that's underneath, because what's most important is that brake fluid that's on your tire. [01:33:19] Speaker C: What the the brake fluid gotta do with the tire when you talking about maple from the tree or something? [01:33:24] Speaker D: You know what? Maybe. Maybe you shouldn't have said nothing. Maybe you shouldn't have said nothing. [01:33:32] Speaker A: I can't. [01:33:33] Speaker B: No. [01:33:33] Speaker C: All right, now I'm so confused. I am so confused right now. [01:33:38] Speaker D: All right, you wouldn't be confused if you just let me say what I said in the beginning. [01:33:43] Speaker C: You did say it. [01:33:47] Speaker D: You stop. [01:33:48] Speaker C: All right, this was a. Yeah, we got a message. We'll be back. [01:33:52] Speaker D: You gonna skip the message? [01:33:54] Speaker C: No, we're gonna. No, we're gonna play the message at. [01:33:57] Speaker G: The end of the day, whether it's mama's boys or daddy's girls, you. Your job as a parent is to raise your children to be respectable adults and to raise your kids to go out into the world and know how to take care of themselves. That is your job. And you can't overdo it by doing that, by teaching them to be good humans, kind humans, learn how to take care of themselves, feed themselves, all that is not necessary in society. So just try to be the best parent you can be. Get through those obstacles when they come your way. Show your children that life has its good times and it's bad times. But take things head on, deal with it, Pray and live life. That's all you can do. [01:34:51] Speaker D: You know what? I think that was perfect. [01:34:56] Speaker C: Yeah, I think that. [01:34:57] Speaker B: That's right. Good job, young lady. So JP just asked me, what's your name? Because he wants to sniff your underwear. [01:35:07] Speaker D: Oh, just. [01:35:08] Speaker C: Oh, my God. Oh, my God. [01:35:10] Speaker D: There he is. [01:35:11] Speaker C: Oh, my God. Oh, my God. This was a all new episode podcast. We'll be back next week. [01:35:24] Speaker B: Yes, sir. [01:35:25] Speaker C: And I had another one, but we. [01:35:28] Speaker D: Go ahead, though. [01:35:29] Speaker C: Yeah, another one. Go ahead. Spin it, spin it, spin it. [01:35:34] Speaker D: Let me tell you something. In the middle of the rain, it doesn't matter how lovely you see the vixen that Mike C. Over there. Just know that the sweetness of Auntie will always sway you through. [01:35:56] Speaker C: Okay, I'm looking for Auntie, then I'm out. Okay. All right, where the aunties at? Where they at? [01:36:03] Speaker E: Right? [01:36:06] Speaker D: I mean, which way is. [01:36:08] Speaker C: Which way are they swaying? [01:36:13] Speaker D: As I look to my right and I see G Man, G Man is looking at you like, you're welcome. You are welcome. [01:36:20] Speaker C: I'm just saying. [01:36:22] Speaker A: You know what? [01:36:23] Speaker C: I'm not gonna be against the final thoughts. I'm just gonna go along with them at this point. I'm just gonna go along with them. Just point me in the. In the direction and where the aunties are swing, and I'll be there. [01:36:37] Speaker B: Yes, sir. [01:36:42] Speaker C: And this is run until that podcast and we are out. [01:36:46] Speaker D: Peace. [01:36:49] Speaker B: Boy.