Episode 72: First Date Etiquette

[00:00:05] Speaker A: All right, welcome. All new episodes running telling that podcast right now with this week, we're short one. JP will be back next week. But how was everybody week, man. [00:00:21] Speaker B: We've had a good week, man. Good week. And always glad to be back with you guys and all our listeners. [00:00:27] Speaker A: All right. [00:00:30] Speaker C: Yeah, I had a great week. I can't complain. [00:00:40] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:00:41] Speaker C: But I can't complain about my week. I had a great week. [00:00:45] Speaker A: Okay. What about you, Rock? [00:00:51] Speaker D: Same here. Everything was everything, you know. [00:00:58] Speaker A: Same for me. I finally get a day off. I ain't been off in like three weeks. So I'll be off tomorrow and I'm just gonna relax tomorrow, see what a day plans. I'm just gonna see where the day takes me. That's. That's. That's it. [00:01:16] Speaker D: Gotcha. [00:01:18] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:01:18] Speaker D: Fly fishing like a fisherman. [00:01:23] Speaker A: What'd you say? I didn't hear you. What you say? [00:01:29] Speaker D: Oh, I said fly fishing like a deep sea fisherman. [00:01:34] Speaker A: Oh, okay. Okay. I mean, I might just sit at home, watch some movies, but to be before. You know what? [00:01:53] Speaker D: Throw it out there. Just. I think I'll throw it out there. [00:01:56] Speaker A: I might. I might, you know. Well, no, this real quick. The second C. I don't know if y'all watched it on Netflix, but the second season of Beauty and Black, that Tyler Perry show or whatever. [00:02:08] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah, I haven't started. [00:02:09] Speaker A: Yeah, I'm start. Yeah, I'm gonna start the second. The second season already start. Already is already out. So I'm probably gonna binge that tomorrow. But let me play Cali's message. [00:02:23] Speaker B: Okay? [00:02:24] Speaker D: Okay. [00:02:25] Speaker A: Okay. [00:02:26] Speaker E: Happy Friday, gentlemen. Gerard, Jeevan Row Dell and jp. How's it going? I am in for this show. [00:02:38] Speaker D: I'm ready a minute. [00:02:40] Speaker C: What's up, Cal? [00:02:41] Speaker A: What's up, Cali? [00:02:42] Speaker B: And you guys must forgive. JP's out tonight. He's working. [00:02:47] Speaker A: He'll be back next. Next Friday for sure. [00:02:49] Speaker C: He's at Mama Song House. [00:02:51] Speaker B: Mama Song. [00:02:52] Speaker A: Oh, here we go. We got another message from Cali. [00:02:58] Speaker E: And this is my music for this Friday evening show. [00:03:22] Speaker B: That's what's up. [00:03:24] Speaker A: All right. [00:03:25] Speaker D: You got your smoker's coat on. Got you a nice cigar. Guessing some bourbon or some yak, you know, sitting back, just chilling. [00:03:36] Speaker B: Back in the day, I used to smoke a pipe when I was in college. I don't know what I was thinking, but like I said, I thought it was the thing to do. Yeah, that's it. That's it. I smoked a pipe and I smoked Captain Black Gold. [00:03:58] Speaker A: Okay. [00:04:01] Speaker D: So would you say it's better to smoke out of the pipe. My bad. [00:04:07] Speaker C: Go ahead. [00:04:08] Speaker D: I'm sorry. [00:04:08] Speaker B: I mean. No, no, no, no. And like I said again, I was in college. I, you know, I was experimenting with a lot of different stuff, but a pipe was just something that seemed really cool, I enjoyed. Wasn't quite as addicting as cigarettes. Like I said again, I'd buy a bag of tobacco and it would last me a good while. But like I said, just something. [00:04:32] Speaker E: All right. [00:04:32] Speaker B: As a matter of fact, I still got my. I got a couple of pipes. [00:04:39] Speaker D: Okay. Like I know. Okay. Because I know one of the guys. [00:04:44] Speaker C: I. [00:04:45] Speaker D: Him and I went through accounting, the accounting program together in college. And he was telling me that's what he did to stop smoking cigarettes, was. He started smoking with the pipe. So that's why I asked. Was it? Yeah, because I asked him, I was like, you know, is it different, better or what? He was just like, I don't know, man, just help me stop smoking cigarettes. So he really didn't tell me much. [00:05:05] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:05:05] Speaker D: So I figured. I. [00:05:06] Speaker A: Actually, I was. [00:05:07] Speaker B: I wasn't a cigarette smoker per se. But like I said, I tried the pipe. And again, like I said, it was just something. It was relaxing for me. Like I said, college is getting stressful, so wherever I can find it, relax. And that, for me, that's what I went with. [00:05:19] Speaker A: All right, well, Tonight's topic, episode 72, first date etiquette. I saw something on social media where this girl was telling us, you know, story of the. She went on the first date and the guy left. And, you know, he left and, well, he went to the bathroom and never came back. The reason being is she went on this first date and she brought her eight kids with her. So my question to y'all, first of all, what would y'all have done in that situation? Would y'all have left? [00:05:59] Speaker B: When I saw the first kid, I. I don't know. One. Okay. Because you kind of got an idea what you're going with or what you working with. But when she popped up with second, third, fourth, fifth, sixth, seventh and eight, this. This day was officially over. And we can't do that. That's poor etiquette, I ain't gonna lie. Yeah, I'm trying to get to know you, not your eight kids. [00:06:25] Speaker D: I ain't gonna lie. I probably been sitting in the parking lot, cuz I wouldn't have went in just yet. I've been sitting there, sitting in the car, and as I see her, and then she opened up the door, and then I see the caravan of kids coming out Like a. Like they coming out of a clown car. I'll be like, oh, yeah, about that. Yo, my mom ain't feeling too good. I gotta go check in on him. Sorry, I gotta go ahead and end this tonight. Maybe we can do this another time. [00:06:58] Speaker A: The crazy thing was she didn't even have money to pay. Like, I guess I don't know if he paid for his and left or he just like left and then paid for his and anything, but she didn't have any money, so she ended up having to reach out to her mom and her baby and her baby daddy to send her money so she can pay for the food. I think they said the age range. Well, real quick, they said the age range was between 5 and 17. [00:07:25] Speaker B: Oh, no, the 17. 17. You got to pay grown for them. But at the end of the day, I think a brief conversation would have. Would have transpired. You know, I'm not gonna do this. You know, you know we're not gonna do this. We can sit and chat for a minute or two, but I can't feed you and your. And your. And your eight kids. That's just not gonna happen. I could, but I choose not to. [00:07:49] Speaker A: Okay, we got. Got like seven messages from Cali. Let me go ahead and play her messages. [00:07:56] Speaker E: So the music I'm listening is off of YouTube and it's smooth jazz. And the picture is of a nice, beautiful, sexy, dark skinned lady with a fro laying across a leather beaded couch with a blue satin low dress and with the lamp in the background and just. Yeah, my dad used to pipe. Pipe. He used to smoke a pipe at dinner time. He was only allowed to do it right before dinner, and when the food came on the table, he had to put it up. Yeah, I remember that pipe. Every time we had dinner. [00:08:45] Speaker C: What you said? [00:08:46] Speaker E: Yeah, my dad didn't. [00:08:49] Speaker A: What happened? [00:08:50] Speaker C: I mean, the pipe. [00:08:51] Speaker B: She talking about her dad smoking the pipe? Yeah. [00:08:57] Speaker A: Now she cleared it up because at first she said her dad's pipe, and then she said like something like that, and then she said, yeah, you know, pipey smoke. [00:09:05] Speaker E: Yeah, yeah, my dad didn't smoke cigarettes. It was just the pipe. And that was his way of chilling out. Hey, Cali, Thursday etiquette. [00:09:18] Speaker A: Hold up. [00:09:19] Speaker C: Okay, look, I'm sorry about that, but before. Before we play next. It's the word pipe. [00:09:26] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:09:33] Speaker C: She put more. [00:09:34] Speaker A: I caught that. [00:09:36] Speaker C: I thought I was the only one. [00:09:37] Speaker A: No, I caught that too. [00:09:38] Speaker C: All right. [00:09:41] Speaker E: Thursday etiquette. Don't bail on her. Don't bail on her. You made the date. You Arranged it. Don't go, ghosts. That is so wrong. [00:09:54] Speaker B: It's wrong. [00:09:55] Speaker C: So basically, if with you, Cali, that's wrong. [00:09:58] Speaker B: I'm trying to get to know you. And the thing was, did she mention she bringing her eight kids? We might need to get that established too. [00:10:06] Speaker A: No, she didn't mention. [00:10:07] Speaker B: No, he wasn't. [00:10:09] Speaker A: No, she didn't mention it. [00:10:10] Speaker B: Eight more miles to feed. [00:10:13] Speaker A: He wasn't. She didn't mention it, but the way she said it was like she didn't know she wasn't supposed to bring her kids. [00:10:23] Speaker D: How old is she? [00:10:24] Speaker A: On the date? Yeah, I don't know how old she is, but she got eight kids, though. I don't. Don't say. And then she never said. [00:10:35] Speaker D: Her name is not David Copperfield. She can't be doing no goddamn magic tricks. [00:10:39] Speaker B: She's gonna make eight kids up here. [00:10:42] Speaker E: Come on. [00:10:42] Speaker D: I'm sorry. Illusionism. [00:10:46] Speaker B: Getting real with appetite, I'll tell you. [00:10:53] Speaker E: All right, so basically, if you want to bell, be polite enough and gentleman enough to call her up and say, hey, it's not going to happen today. And don't wait to the last minute to tell her. Give her a day or so in advance, if not six hours in advance to let her know that we need to move it to another day. [00:11:12] Speaker D: I don't know. [00:11:13] Speaker B: She. [00:11:16] Speaker A: I think. [00:11:22] Speaker D: She rolled up with a whole basketball team. Oh, no, cuz, matter of fact, she. [00:11:28] Speaker B: Had a starting five and three coming off the bench. [00:11:30] Speaker D: No, she have a solid rotation of some leads. [00:11:35] Speaker B: I'm saying. [00:11:36] Speaker A: Exactly. [00:11:36] Speaker B: You got a guard coming in, a forward and a center. No, we ain't doing that. [00:11:44] Speaker C: But you know what? If you really think about it too, man, and. And this the thing too. Like, we all been on that date. Like, when? Before Phones. Like, some of us are old enough. Yeah. And we had phone, but we had beepers. [00:11:58] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:12:00] Speaker C: Pagers used to actually, like, beep, beep, beep, beep. [00:12:02] Speaker D: And we just. [00:12:03] Speaker C: Like some of them say 9, 1, 1. Someone say 6, 9. Someone said push. You know what I mean? How the way they spell. [00:12:10] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:12:10] Speaker C: All these words, these numbers together. But the educator on the first day, I. I don't think, like, for me, personally, I don't think that. Now if she had. Like, I have. Look, think about it. Now. You got to get a table for. You got to get a table. [00:12:24] Speaker B: A table for 10. [00:12:34] Speaker C: Then to think about it, you gotta look at the check. Because think about it. Now say you. You can't. [00:12:47] Speaker A: I hear him, but I don't hear them. [00:12:50] Speaker D: Yeah, it's like, y'all. In the distance. I think your wish come out a little bit. [00:12:54] Speaker A: Yeah, because I can hear them outside, but I don't hear them coming through the speaker. And Dale just talking too. I'mma play the messages. [00:13:13] Speaker E: Oh, I have never. And I've seen those videos. Crazy videos with the women with the friends and the kids. Oh, you've got to be. You've got to feed my kids. Oh, I'm gonna. I'm gonna order some take home food. I remember that video. And the dude gets up and walks out. What the hell? That's nerve. No, I've never done that and nor will I remember. Did I tell you guys that somebody left me at the restaurant like our first date? He got up and left. Yeah. Anyway, you're funny. I didn't realize I was doing that, but okay. Oh, that message. You guys played that I was assuming I was referring to the eight kids. No, that was not in reference to the eight kids. I was just saying in general. The woman by herself. [00:14:16] Speaker D: Oh, yeah. Oh, no. [00:14:18] Speaker E: You guys. [00:14:21] Speaker A: Go ahead. I'm sorry. [00:14:23] Speaker D: Oh, no. I was just saying like I knew what she was saying. I just wanted to make the joke off of what she was saying. Yeah, I do want to make the joke off of it. I understood what she was saying though. [00:14:35] Speaker E: Wait, you guys are misunderstanding what I'm saying. You need to pull me up so we. I can play it or I can say what I say when you guys talk. [00:14:42] Speaker C: You. [00:14:42] Speaker E: You're kind of behind. [00:14:46] Speaker F: I just can't make it rhyme. That bless things. So I let him hit it from behind two birds. What that mean? Two dicks at a time. But they okay. [00:14:57] Speaker A: It'S not gonna let me put it on YouTube. I don't think. I think it won't let me put it on there. You know what? You know what? It whatever happens, happen. I'm gonna play it. [00:15:12] Speaker C: I'm playing how much I'm going to say. [00:15:14] Speaker F: I just can't make it rhyme. That best thing. So I let him hit it from behind. Two butters with that me two dicks at a time. But they only less extensions. I guess they mean 5 fine on twist cousins. That was fine. I don't even know his name but I bet he know mine. He say peaches you lovely but you don't smell like your name. He said my smell like fish and it tastes the same. [00:15:35] Speaker A: Wow, wow, wow, wow. [00:15:41] Speaker D: Oh. Oh, God. [00:15:43] Speaker A: They still do they. You might want to let them know that. I think they still trying to talk through it. [00:15:50] Speaker D: No, I had sent a text. [00:15:53] Speaker A: You did it May be a stereo. [00:15:54] Speaker D: Thing because, like, on my joint, it's still showing the message. It's still showing the. That you playing the message. The last message with the lady that was rapping. [00:16:04] Speaker A: Oh, yeah, yeah. Because I don't. You know, but you can see where they trying to say something. But what other. Yeah, first date. [00:16:24] Speaker D: I would say don't overthink things, you know, Just go in and go there. Just let it flow. Vibe off the other person, you know? You know, sometimes you. You know, you may. You try to put yourself in that. Okay. We here at the restaurant. This may be said. So I may say this. I ain't gonna say this. You know what I'm saying? Because I don't want. I don't want to scare him or her off. You know, you don't even do it all that. Put too much pressure on yourself. Just be calm and then. Can't see what happens. [00:17:10] Speaker A: But you said don't overthink it. You. You gone, too. [00:17:17] Speaker D: No, I'm right here. You hear me? [00:17:18] Speaker A: Okay, yeah, I hear you. Now you said don't overthink it. [00:17:23] Speaker D: I think. [00:17:24] Speaker A: What else you starting. You're starting to break up a little bit. [00:17:31] Speaker E: You're right, Ro. Just be natural. Just go with the vibe, Go with the flow. No expectations. It works out perfect. At least for me it does. [00:17:47] Speaker D: Yeah. I mean, let me see. What's something else? Please. Unless you have to. [00:18:02] Speaker A: What just happened? I don't know where we're at, man. [00:18:07] Speaker E: Yo, where's everybody going? Where is everybody going? [00:18:11] Speaker C: We here. [00:18:12] Speaker A: Okay, here we go. [00:18:13] Speaker D: What the just happened? [00:18:14] Speaker A: Oh, I was talking. Yeah, well, yeah. Yeah. I don't remember the last point you made. [00:18:25] Speaker D: It don't matter. I can't remember it either. I was gonna say you got. We missed everything that y'all were saying. Yeah, we can hear you. [00:18:33] Speaker A: We can hear you. [00:18:33] Speaker D: So everything that y'all were saying, if y'all don't mind. Could y'all repeat it? If you don't mind? [00:18:40] Speaker A: Who? [00:18:41] Speaker D: Dale and. And G, man. [00:18:43] Speaker A: Oh, when they were talking and we couldn't hear. Yeah, yeah. [00:18:46] Speaker B: I. I mean, my thing again, like I said again, you know, the. The. The date was kind of sabotaged when she walked in with. With her. With her eight kids, man. [00:18:55] Speaker C: Let me tell you something. She walking in with eight kids. I'm walking to the bathroom. I'm keep going. [00:19:00] Speaker B: And I know what Cali was saying about. Don't boast it, but she brought that on herself. [00:19:05] Speaker C: If she walked together. If she walked there with four boys, four girl. Tom, Dick, Harry, and Bill, Sarah, Joanna. [00:19:16] Speaker B: No. And then nine times out of 10, they wanted to go play, too. Hell no. [00:19:23] Speaker C: But I'll tell you this. But you know what? And I'll keep it real, man. You know, some people really, really do that. [00:19:29] Speaker B: They do. [00:19:30] Speaker C: They do that, man. [00:19:31] Speaker B: They do. [00:19:32] Speaker C: They do that. [00:19:35] Speaker B: But they got to expect that date might end abruptly or. Or not in the way they think it's going to end. [00:19:41] Speaker C: Well, you know, we just had it. And before y'all play any message, we just had a young lady that just was on here just rapping us now. [00:19:50] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:19:51] Speaker A: Yeah, she. [00:19:53] Speaker C: So let me just go ahead and break. Y'all want me to break my rap down to her? [00:19:58] Speaker D: Oh, Lord, yes. [00:20:00] Speaker A: Hey, we ready. [00:20:03] Speaker C: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10. Then you got 11, 12, 13. You start your age. 14, 15, 16, the Pupid stage. Like an apple, like a cherry, like a sweet, like a plum. Let me get off this virgin before I come pick up my. I think I'll follow you. Give me some. Watch out. Watch out. Dripping lime scum. I said, dang. I like the way she make a broccoli roller. Especially if this is on birth control. [00:20:37] Speaker B: Up. That. [00:20:37] Speaker C: That's all I got to say. [00:20:38] Speaker B: That's all. [00:20:39] Speaker C: So. [00:20:45] Speaker D: It'S the birth controller. [00:20:50] Speaker A: Controller. Yeah. [00:20:52] Speaker D: That's a double time, I'm telling you. [00:20:54] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah. Y. [00:20:57] Speaker C: Hey, buy one, get one free. Double or tandre. [00:21:04] Speaker B: I mean, to. All right, to. To my. To our call, to our listeners, and even to the panel. Your first. All right, give me your impression of. Of a first date that just did not go well. [00:21:19] Speaker A: Let me go. I want to go first. I never go first. Let me go first. So this was a bad. This was. It was a bad first date. It was somebody that I worked with a long time ago. So me and her, we went out. So we're supposed to go into dinner. So I went to, you know, we. We had dinner or whatever, and I'm. I promise you, I'm eye to eye as she talking. And then she had the audacity to look at me and say. And that's the problem. All men want to do is look at my breast. The. You talking about. I'm looking at you, and I'm. I'm. I didn't look down near time. And then the date just went. It spiraled right after that, because then she thought all I was trying to do was trying to get some. And that's not what it was. I was literally. I was listening to what she said. [00:22:15] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:22:16] Speaker B: Apparently she had, again, had had issues with that people looking at her, had her top in the, in the past and she just kind of lumped you in with the red stuff. Sad. [00:22:26] Speaker A: Well, man, I mean, I, I ain't gonna lie. When we would be at work and she wear the low cut shirts. I'm not, I'm, I ain't glanced. I looked. It wasn't glancing. [00:22:34] Speaker B: I was looking. [00:22:37] Speaker A: I ain't glad, you know, glances. Me trying to be sneaky. No, I was looking. But that night I wasn't looking. But that was, that was like, that was a bad date. [00:22:53] Speaker B: I remember date I went on, my boy set me up. And again, we had talked for weeks, weeks before we actually first met. And I'm gonna tell you all that she said about herself and all the images that she had kind of put in my mind when I met her. It simply was not true. [00:23:14] Speaker C: I'll tell y'all this too, man. This. And y'all might laugh. And don't pee your pants when I say this, but I'm gonna let y'all know this. I went on a date. My cousin hooked me up with someone from the College of Charleston. So we went to at the time, and it's still down there. It's Wild Wing Cafe, not Buffalo. [00:23:34] Speaker B: Wow. [00:23:35] Speaker C: Downtown, the Market Street. So I walked in there. She had more bumps and stuff on her lips than the thing of Captain Crunch. Ouch. I mean, look. [00:23:50] Speaker A: Wow. [00:23:52] Speaker C: I was like, that sounds like, no. [00:23:55] Speaker B: I can't kiss no and can't kiss her straight up. [00:24:01] Speaker C: I can't kiss her straight up. [00:24:03] Speaker D: I mean, you could roll that dice. [00:24:06] Speaker B: Baby professed and claimed that she was all of this and that. And I'm looking, when I met her, her nails weren't done, polish was chipped. And I'm like, wait a minute, you don't told me you did that and the third and your nails ain't done, your hair ain't quite right. And I, I mean, like I said, my expectations was blown. She showed me some dreams in the shower and I bought them. And I, I, I, I feel bad, but we got over it. We got past the date. I fed her and I took her home, period. [00:24:40] Speaker A: You took her home or you took her home? [00:24:43] Speaker B: I took her home. [00:24:43] Speaker C: I dropped it off. [00:24:44] Speaker B: Oh, good night. [00:24:45] Speaker A: Oh, wow. [00:24:46] Speaker D: Oh, okay. Well, you just stopped on it. [00:24:51] Speaker A: I just said, you know what I'm saying? Did you take her home or did. [00:24:54] Speaker B: You took a home? I took a home. [00:24:56] Speaker C: I dropped it all. I said, look, I said, let me apologize about that. I didn't. I messed around and say, captain Crunch, it's supposed to be Crunchy Munch. [00:25:04] Speaker B: Crunching. Oh, you remember Crunchy Munch. [00:25:09] Speaker D: Together they don't make it better. [00:25:12] Speaker A: They don't make it no better. That made it worse. That made it worse. [00:25:18] Speaker D: You was gonna roll the dice, baby. [00:25:20] Speaker A: I'm telling you. [00:25:21] Speaker C: I look at her, I look at her kneecap. That's the first thing. Look, every guy should look at a woman if they got on dress. [00:25:27] Speaker B: Look at the kneecap. [00:25:29] Speaker C: You know why I said look at the kneecap? Because if it's ashy, you'll find out. Yeah, well, I mean, like, look, I. [00:25:36] Speaker B: Think her kneecap and her feet. Yeah. [00:25:38] Speaker C: You mess around, look at somebody feeding. [00:25:40] Speaker B: What if she got especially what if she got. Is she wearing sandals and a feet? [00:25:45] Speaker A: What if she got shoes, regular shoes on and pants, man. What do you look at then Shoes too. [00:25:51] Speaker B: And she got lumps and bumps on them shoes, them old shoes. Oh, my bunions trying to pop out. No, you can tell some stuff, you know, but we got. [00:26:03] Speaker C: Look right quick. We got five message. [00:26:09] Speaker E: His point was to be. Just be normal. No expectations, just enjoy yourself, you know, go with the vibe, go with whatever and just be okay. No, I agree on you guys. A woman should never bring a friend or a whole damn village of kids that she's had. Never. I do not agree on that at all. They should never do that. That's so disrespectful. [00:26:37] Speaker A: Well, before I play the next message. Some people look at it differently. You got some men that look at it well. And I'm in. You know, we're adults here being totally transparent. Some dudes will look at and be like, oh, you got eight kids. These I know she so I mean like, seriously, some think like that it's mess is messed up. But don't say be like, they'll pay for the eight kids knowing. Yeah, it's. The odds are a whole lot better at this point. [00:27:11] Speaker C: That's right. That's right. That and you know what? And that definitely makes sense, you know what I'm saying? Because if you come up with eight kids, at least, you know, doing something well. [00:27:20] Speaker B: But you know, she might want to take a moral stand now. [00:27:23] Speaker C: But I'm g. Tell you. [00:27:24] Speaker B: Oh, I got morals now. [00:27:25] Speaker A: After eight kids. After eight kids, you got nothing to stand on. [00:27:36] Speaker C: So you, I mean, so if you taking her to a like a Ruth Chris and she come with them kids, guess what? I'm be like, hey, you take four, I take four. Hey, look, I'm go. I'm going to take them right to McDonald's for sure. [00:27:51] Speaker B: And I'm getting four happy be. [00:27:52] Speaker D: Them nuggies. [00:27:58] Speaker B: They do 50 nuggets now. [00:28:00] Speaker D: 50. [00:28:00] Speaker B: Give them a 50 piece and a two large fries. [00:28:03] Speaker C: Shoot and look. And then hit, look. Hit the one that's whining the most in the throat. Just be quiet. [00:28:10] Speaker B: Eat them fried. [00:28:11] Speaker A: I don't know. [00:28:12] Speaker D: You probably ain't got to do that. Well, now, cuz, think about it. You only have to hit him in the throat because when you looked over and she had a pocketbook open, you seen. You seen that melatonin that she had in there. So you already know what time it is. [00:28:30] Speaker A: Oh, damn. [00:28:31] Speaker C: Hey, look, let me ask you a question. So if. If the lady who have the eight kids now, this hypothetical situation. So she got the eight kids and she said, hey, I'm about to go use the restroom. And she said, can you hold on to my pocketbook? And you hold on her pocketbook, and all of a sudden the pocketbook slip and all kind of stuff come up there. What will you think about her? Like, if a. Like a dildo. Let me say vibrator. Look, let me say it right. A dick plug. You know what I mean? So how would you guys feel? [00:29:13] Speaker D: She got a. She got a vibrator in her pocketbook, gonna be like, oh, she ready this go time right here. Man, I wonder. I wonder, do she have the one that's in her. In her panties and let me control it with my phone. [00:29:29] Speaker C: Well, you better be careful because she got all that stuff. Hey, one or two things ain't gonna be nice for you. That's why you go to her house, man. [00:29:36] Speaker A: So everybody gonna let. Everybody gonna let what rope says slip by. Like. [00:29:41] Speaker D: Like everybody know. This is what you. This is what you told me, and I'm just repeating it. You know, I never told you. [00:29:48] Speaker A: I never told you nothing. You said that smooth. And then you thought nobody caught on. I caught what you. I caught what you was putting down. I caught it. I called it. [00:30:03] Speaker D: You didn't say nothing because you was thinking the same thing. You was like, you know what? I probably would put that on like three or four. I probably would. [00:30:09] Speaker A: I didn't even cross. Really. It didn't cross my mind. I was just. I was just in awe that you would even say that. [00:30:18] Speaker D: I think that's what I think. Anybody would if that. It's gonna cross your mind. That's all I'm saying. Hypothetically speaking. Hypothetically. Air quotes. [00:30:26] Speaker A: Hypothetically, yeah. You was playing with your phone a lot at my granddaughter's birthday party. Something. Something we need to talk about later. [00:30:35] Speaker C: What you talking about? [00:30:38] Speaker D: First of all, I think we got the power. And I don't know what you are trying to do. [00:30:46] Speaker C: Find out. Ro, you got one. [00:30:52] Speaker A: We got power to grow. What? I got kiss. Okay. I got kissy. Mrs. No. [00:31:10] Speaker D: Oh God, my head hurt. [00:31:12] Speaker A: Okay, we got like four of them. Five. [00:31:15] Speaker E: Because somebody raised their asses like that. They. Somebody raised. And somebody put it in their heads that they can act that way. And apparently they've been getting away with it with other dudes. That's what's happened. [00:31:33] Speaker C: That makes sense. [00:31:34] Speaker E: And she ran, said. And then you got 11. Yeah, I back gagged too. Ro, when he said that, Gerard. [00:31:51] Speaker A: Really? [00:31:52] Speaker E: Omg. Omg. I don't believe you just said it. [00:32:01] Speaker G: Wow. [00:32:02] Speaker A: What did I say? Oh, somebody. What I said about the eight kids. [00:32:07] Speaker C: Yeah, Yeah. [00:32:08] Speaker A: I didn't say. That's what I thought I said that's what you have some men that think like that. [00:32:15] Speaker D: I'll tell you another thing is don't get too drunk. Don't be drinking too much, you know. [00:32:20] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:32:21] Speaker D: Control your alcohol. [00:32:24] Speaker A: Yeah. Because the last thing you want to do on a. On a first date is talk about that happened in your, in your last relationship. Yeah. [00:32:37] Speaker B: I mean, you know, guys, when you think about it, like I said, let's, let's dismiss the girl with the eight kids, you know, and we gonna keep it real. And, and you got, you know, you, you're on your first date. You know, if you invited her to this date, I think it's your responsibility to keep her entertained, to feed her well. [00:32:56] Speaker C: But do you pay though? [00:32:57] Speaker B: I mean, you, you invited her. [00:33:01] Speaker C: The only reason why I'm asking that question is because if you think about it, if. What if she sat down there, y'all go to Ruth Chris, you order something that's gonna be under $50 and here come this heathen sit there. [00:33:15] Speaker B: She, she said even listen, she's sitting. [00:33:21] Speaker C: There ordering the 20 ounce steak. [00:33:23] Speaker B: Lobster. The lobster tail. [00:33:25] Speaker C: Matter of fact, she on the surf and turf. [00:33:26] Speaker B: Surf and turf. [00:33:27] Speaker C: She doing a salad. She doing the dang on appetizer. You ain't even doing none of that stuff. And she ate none of the stuff. But she. Then she said, I'mma take all of it home. How would you feel? [00:33:38] Speaker B: I'm again, I. I feel offended. [00:33:40] Speaker C: Number one and gotta pay. 320. [00:33:43] Speaker B: You'll be. 320. But see, I think again, as, as the guy as biting you, I'm gonna establish I'm not going roof Chris, on my first date with you. But I might take you to back. [00:33:55] Speaker C: To what she want. [00:33:56] Speaker B: Go ahead. And I ain't asking her. I'm not asking her. [00:33:59] Speaker C: I'm just saying, she say I'm paying that roof, Chris. [00:34:02] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah, yeah. We. We'll get there, but we ain't going this time. [00:34:09] Speaker C: What if she said. What did she tell you? [00:34:11] Speaker B: She said, hey, I like you know you on the sex side of the menu, right? [00:34:15] Speaker C: But what if she tell you just like this. She. She said. She said it to you. [00:34:20] Speaker A: She said, hey Big. [00:34:24] Speaker C: Hey, Big Daddy Dale. After a while, if you feed me now, you get to come to my penthouse. [00:34:32] Speaker A: You can't say it like that. You can't say like that. [00:34:35] Speaker B: She don't need me anyway. [00:34:37] Speaker A: Say it like that. [00:34:38] Speaker B: Yeah, but no, hey, Ron, I'm gonna pick the place. [00:34:43] Speaker A: And he's probably G. Man ain't say it right. [00:34:47] Speaker B: I'm not gonna probably start you off. No, I think that that's probably. It's gonna be someplace nice, but it's probably not gonna be somewhere we're gonna look at a 3 or 400 bill at the end of the night. We're not. No, we ain't doing that. [00:35:00] Speaker C: Gerard. Go ahead. [00:35:03] Speaker A: Supposed to sit like this. No, we ain't going. [00:35:15] Speaker B: I'm ass out now. That's not gonna happen. No, probably not. [00:35:22] Speaker D: Like you man said, the. The penthouse may be the crotch is what she talking about. [00:35:27] Speaker C: That's what she's trying to get you at. And look, and once. What if you. You don't ate your. All your food and she still got. [00:35:37] Speaker B: Still got that. She got what's left at 20 out. Yeah, she's got an appetizer. Yeah. [00:35:43] Speaker C: And then she all of a sudden. [00:35:44] Speaker B: She said and she want dessert. [00:35:46] Speaker A: No. [00:35:46] Speaker B: And she told you. [00:35:47] Speaker C: No. Look, and this is the funny part. What if she said the, the. The waitress, the waiter come back and she said I needed to go box and she tell you that I gotta feed my kids with these? How would you feel? [00:36:02] Speaker B: I feel like man, who Dude, I've been had. [00:36:05] Speaker C: No, I'm gonna tell you what you. What you should do. [00:36:07] Speaker B: Just take. [00:36:08] Speaker C: Take and. And trust me when I say this, please don't get offended. Nobody take your shoes off. Roll down your socks. Make sure you sit in a perfect, perfect place. And you said open your leg for a second, man. Let your. Let your toe get some of that. Rub your picture. [00:36:30] Speaker A: All right, all right, all right. Do what you gotta do. [00:36:36] Speaker D: Oh God. [00:36:38] Speaker B: And then feeding the family with the rest of it with to go home. And like I said, that's why we got to establish some boundaries. [00:36:44] Speaker C: Well, somebody. [00:36:45] Speaker D: But what if it's on the other side, though? [00:36:47] Speaker B: No, we ain't. We ain't doing. [00:36:48] Speaker D: What if it's on the other side? [00:36:49] Speaker C: Probably not with the man? [00:36:51] Speaker D: No, no. What if it's her or the man? But. But it's gonna be her. What if she just have a thing about eating in front of you? So it ain't no kids at the house, and she just want to take. She like, you know what? I'm just nervous. Like, I don't want to eat in front of you like that. Like, once you get to know you, she may pig out and. And that's a normal eating pattern, but she don't want to do it in front of you to freak you out. So then what when you go? [00:37:18] Speaker B: That's when your first date is at Starbucks if you got. Well, damn it, we going. [00:37:26] Speaker A: Well, that's. [00:37:27] Speaker B: And some. Some donuts, you know, or get up. [00:37:30] Speaker A: Well, no, but that is a. But that is a. That is a. That. I mean, that is a normal first date for some. You know what I'm saying? Get coffee. [00:37:37] Speaker B: Coffee. [00:37:38] Speaker A: Because a lot of women don't want to. A lot of women don't want to get caught up in that thing of. You know what I'm saying? At the end of the night, okay, they go to dinner. Let's, like you said, go to Ruth Chris. And then the guy is like. Basically like what Dale said, okay? Everything on that side of the menu, you're gonna be face down the ass up. You know what I'm saying? So coffee date. A coffee date is way cheaper then. Then, you know what I'm saying? Then hurt, you know what I mean? Because you. I mean, let's not act like guys don't think like that. Some guys do think like that. [00:38:16] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:38:16] Speaker D: Shoot some dudes. So some dudes don't think like, even if I take. You get a cup of coffee and you got an article, you know. [00:38:25] Speaker A: But we got three messages real quick. Let me. [00:38:28] Speaker B: Let me. [00:38:29] Speaker A: I'm gonna get. We got four. Yeah. [00:38:32] Speaker D: Yes. [00:38:33] Speaker A: I'm play Juicy's, then I'm jump back. [00:38:35] Speaker H: To Cali's, shout out to my guys. How have y'all been? How's the day treating y'all? How's y'all heart, mental and spirit. [00:38:46] Speaker A: Honey. [00:38:48] Speaker H: I believe no man should take no woman on no expensive first date. I don't give a damn if he's six figures. If she's six figures, I don't give a damn. She could still use your ass if you give off too much the first time. [00:39:06] Speaker B: I like her. [00:39:07] Speaker C: I. I like her. [00:39:09] Speaker A: That's true. [00:39:10] Speaker B: Right now. [00:39:13] Speaker A: Hold the house. [00:39:15] Speaker B: Just hold. Never mind. You don't worry about that. [00:39:20] Speaker A: You can't just put that out there and then tell. You can't put that out there and tell the listeners until. And not tell us what you mean by that. [00:39:28] Speaker B: Go ahead, man, play the messages. [00:39:32] Speaker A: Since you said it so nicely, I'll go ahead and play the messages. [00:39:37] Speaker E: Well, all I can say about me is you will never see me bring my kids on the first date as of today, because they are full grown and they make more money than you. Y'all do six figures. So they'd probably take you guys out. Well, men in general. [00:39:59] Speaker C: Well, let me tell you something, Cali. Yeah. [00:40:01] Speaker A: Oh, here we go. [00:40:04] Speaker C: Some people in this podcast make six. [00:40:07] Speaker B: Figures, by the by. You like, your kids ain't the only one making six figures. [00:40:12] Speaker C: Look, look, let me tell you this, too. Some people been making six figures since 2018. [00:40:16] Speaker B: Long time. Long time. [00:40:19] Speaker D: They just. [00:40:20] Speaker C: Look, they just find a way how to be quiet about it. [00:40:24] Speaker B: Exactly. [00:40:25] Speaker C: So let me on. On a serious note, before you play the last mess, I mean, before the next full message, I just thought about something to snow, you know, and I, you know, like. I mean, like, if you have an option to take a girl somewhere and you know for a fact that she kind of like. You hear the kids in the background. Look, you hear kids in the background. Anybody house. Sit down, Johnny. You better go sit down. [00:40:52] Speaker A: You say sit down, Johnny? [00:40:56] Speaker B: Yeah, Johnny. Yeah, John. [00:41:00] Speaker C: Johnny. Is that. And I hate to say it. Johnny is that Negro kid that always act bad, Johnny. [00:41:06] Speaker B: People just talking. Go ahead, man. [00:41:10] Speaker C: Anybody telling their kids to sit down. And you wait till your grandma get here. [00:41:20] Speaker B: But hold on. [00:41:21] Speaker C: And they put you on hole. And the grandma never come pick them up, you know. You know for a fact the kids gotta go somewhere. [00:41:27] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah, yeah. [00:41:28] Speaker C: Dude. The first thing that comes to my mind is that I'm going to either Applebee's to take. Yeah, because Apple got two. What, two for 20. Was two or two for 25. [00:41:38] Speaker B: They got. Yeah, all right. Or. Like I said, man, again. Or, Or. [00:41:42] Speaker D: Or. [00:41:42] Speaker B: Or coffee call. Nice coffee shop. [00:41:46] Speaker C: You can't take. [00:41:47] Speaker B: Man, we ain't taking eight now. We not doing that. [00:41:50] Speaker C: I'm seeing that. You look. Think part of it, brother. You have to actually take them kids out of the house by the time you get back. Dss, social worker. [00:42:01] Speaker E: Somebody. [00:42:02] Speaker B: Somebody gonna be at the house. [00:42:03] Speaker C: Somebody gonna be at the house waiting. So what I'm trying to get at is that you have to do something. So guess what? I'll load all the kids up. The first thing I take it, I'll look on my phone. [00:42:13] Speaker B: You gonna load them in the Camaro. [00:42:15] Speaker C: But no but h. Look, think about it now. And, and you got a porch. [00:42:19] Speaker B: You got a porch. How you gonna fit that kid? [00:42:23] Speaker D: Man said load them up like they got damn firewood. [00:42:26] Speaker B: You know what I'm saying? You gotta stack them up with some in the trunk. Come on. But Stoney, you got him in the trunk. [00:42:33] Speaker C: But I tell them, you know, the mom gotta have a minivan. She gotta have a minivan. So I tell them, I'll take two. The kids or three. The kids. I can take three. If I got take three, I take three. And I say the other one can ride with. But at this time I'm thinking like. [00:42:48] Speaker B: That'S the four door pool. [00:42:49] Speaker C: But think about it. Harris T got subs a foot long. Foot long sub for 6.99. 12.99. [00:42:56] Speaker B: They don't want no damn subs though. They. They want a meal. [00:42:58] Speaker C: They something. They got. [00:43:00] Speaker B: Get a bag of chips and some and you're good to go, bro. But go ahead. [00:43:09] Speaker C: Sorry, sorry. But. I'm sorry, bro. Go ahead, play the message. Go play it out. [00:43:13] Speaker B: Sorry. [00:43:14] Speaker A: Yeah, okay, hold on. I'm bouncing back and forth. Here go, miss. Here go, miss. [00:43:19] Speaker G: I want to say this though. Do you remember? I don't know if anybody did it, but I came from the era where it was like MySpace and all that, chat lines and stuff like that. So I thought I'd meet somebody from a chat line and wow, the biggest mistake ever. Because he was crazy and he was nothing like what he said. He had me pumped up on. Like I would. I really wasn't. Just. I like this conversation. We talked for five months before we met and it was just like really crazy, you know. When I met him, he wanted me to get the car with him. I was like, no. Something in my heart to told me to meet him somewhere else. And he found me anyway. And he didn't even know what I looked like. He just knew it was me because I look different from the area that I was in. You know how when you go to a new area, you look different from the other females? So he spotted me. Craziness. And when I was like, oh, I'll just follow you. And then I took a left turn. It was supposed to go right. He did a ue in the middle of the road and was not playing games. [00:44:20] Speaker D: Ms. Key, we love before you play that. [00:44:21] Speaker B: Like I said, we understand that. [00:44:24] Speaker D: That printed that picture out, got him a milk carton and. And stapled your pictures to the back of that because y'all remember back in the day, he was on a mission. [00:44:36] Speaker C: But we still got them six. [00:44:38] Speaker D: I'm sorry. [00:44:41] Speaker E: Y'all making me laugh. Jordan, I remember the last time I heard you laugh this much. Oh, my God, you all are hilarious. [00:44:51] Speaker A: Now that's them. They're making me laugh. [00:44:54] Speaker G: Hey, how is everybody doing? I just wanted to shout you guys out. I don't want to call all the names because there's some people on there, you know, that's on the same mic, but just throwing it out there. I. I could go ahead and tell you what my first date was, but my ideal first day, after some lessons learned, is like, I want to do something that's, you know, us having fun with some type of, like, physical activity, not sex. Okay, let me just stop that, because physical activity sounded weird, but. But that's what came to mind when I was talking. But, like, going to do something that we've related to on, like. Like a sport, like, thing. I don't know, bowling. I don't know, hanging out, walking. I don't know, something that's more physical, like, I would like to go play golf or. [00:45:58] Speaker E: I agree with what Juicy Jean said about, you know, don't give her too much because she'll start using you. I agree with that. But on the other end of that, if you have a woman like me, if you spend 300 on a dinner, you best believe my ass going to turn around and do the same for you, baby. I spend 300 on YouTube. I'm not that woman that wants to just take, take, take, take. [00:46:27] Speaker A: I really didn't. As I was reading that message, I really didn't think that it wasn't. I didn't think it was gonna end like that. Yeah, I really thought she was gonna say, if you spend 300 on dinner, you best believe you can get all this ass. That's what I thought it was gonna be. But it didn't. It. That's not how the ending was. It was. It was gonna be, you know, she gonna turn around and spend 300 too, on you. You know what I'm saying? [00:46:53] Speaker B: I. I want to say to Ms. Key, again, like I said, she made an excellent point. She. I mean, again, she. She wants to have fun. She wants to have, you know, some type of activity. Bowling, walking, strolling, you know, maybe top, top golf or something like that. And I get that. And, like, I said again, while you're laughing, you're communicating, you're establishing something. It may not be lasting, but at least you've spent some time. And that's a good deal. At the end of the day, the date don't have to end in sex. [00:47:21] Speaker C: That's right. [00:47:21] Speaker B: But like I said again, you're having a good time, you're getting to know one another. [00:47:25] Speaker C: So my question right quick, too, is that Ms. Key, and this is for you. So what if. And what if you invite him or he invite you back to the house? His house? His penthouse house. Y'all had a good time at dinner and all this stuff like that. [00:47:41] Speaker B: You had a good time walking and. [00:47:43] Speaker C: Chatting and talking and all this stuff like that. And all of a sudden he said, say this to you, hey, we can go back to my penthouse and we can further this conversation. I can have a Uber driver pick you up whenever you ready to go back and y'all go back to this house. Conversation so good, y'all joking and all that stuff like that. Then all of a sudden, y'all start kissing and you stop it. And he said, look, I thought that's what you want. [00:48:18] Speaker B: Call a Uber. I'm keeping my word. I'm gonna be a man of my word. If you're on at this point, it's time for you to go. I'mma call the Uber and I'm gonna pay for it, and we good to go. [00:48:34] Speaker A: All right. As Greg was, as G man, I mean, as him was, given the. Giving that. Given a scenario, why it felt like it was like some. Some from a Lifetime movie, and then Ms. Key was gonna end up in the back of a white van, handcuffed, tied up, duct tape. [00:48:59] Speaker B: Let her go home. Yeah, you know, I mean, like I said, I don't want her to feel pressure. Do you think we had a great time? [00:49:06] Speaker C: But. But do you think that us as guys be the more aggressive one when it comes down to, like, if. Okay, so if, if the girl's sitting over the table and showing us eye to eye contact, do we think that they. That means sex? [00:49:18] Speaker B: No. But you got a connection. [00:49:21] Speaker D: No. [00:49:21] Speaker B: You got a connection. Possibly. [00:49:24] Speaker C: So why do guys actually fools and, and trust me, believe me, this just me talking, but why do guys force their self to believe that the woman want the next stuff when they actually just want to have a conversation? [00:49:35] Speaker B: Because sometimes they. They. They read it. They read it wrong. They. They sometimes think their. Their presence is godlike. You know, they. They're. They're that attractive or they that desirable, but at the end of the day, no. [00:49:48] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:49:48] Speaker B: No mean no all the time. Yeah, maybe me. [00:49:51] Speaker A: Or also possibly means also. Well, also, just because you did this happened with one woman doesn't mean it's gonna happen with another woman. And that's another problem too. Men lump all women in one. They put them in one box. [00:50:08] Speaker D: That's right. That's right. [00:50:09] Speaker B: And we can't do that. [00:50:11] Speaker A: Nope, can't do that. [00:50:13] Speaker D: Or you get on the flip side. Or you get on the flip side before you put your messages now. No, no, no, no, no. I'm talking about the flip side is come to find out she's the one that's the aggressive because you go back to her spot and then you be like, nah, you know, I kind of like you. I don't want to be that. So I want to fall back. And she's like, damn, what you gay or something? [00:50:34] Speaker C: Let me tell you this, man. If I go back to earth spot and she being aggressive, I'm pulling here, I'm pulling her here. I'm gonna try to figure out if it's real or not. [00:50:51] Speaker B: They gonna make you pay for that. [00:50:53] Speaker C: You're gonna pay for a lot of message, Gerard. [00:50:55] Speaker B: You're gonna play the messages, man, I'm. [00:50:57] Speaker A: Gonna run them out. [00:51:00] Speaker E: I said, I corrected it. In general, in general, in general. For the men out in the world that think that, you know, kind of what the women think. Oh, you're going to take me out and no, just like I just said to Jenny, you could take me out for a 300 meal on my first date, which is what my boyfriend of seven years has done to me. I turned around and did the same thing for him. I took him out on a 300 on meal and I paid for it. [00:51:29] Speaker C: EBT. [00:51:30] Speaker A: Whoa. [00:51:31] Speaker G: But speaking of kids, first of all, I don't even want you meeting my kids until I find out if I like you. Ain't no feeding no kids until I find out what you can do with just like us, you know, Cuz we got to go down the ladder, we got to go down the chain. We got to understand that, you know, at this point in my life, I don't. I don't have time to be just introducing my child to anybody. I don't need that confusion. I'm not that person that's into somebody been like getting attached to them and then calling them daddy. I can't do that. So before that even takes ro. Cuz I like to take it real serious. You're not meeting my child until we get to that Place where we have made a ration. You know, we've made a commitment that it's time for us to move forward. Other than that, no sir. I need to go on a few dates with you. I need to put you in situations where we need to see how we each other act like. Because if you really into somebody, it's just going to be natural. [00:52:32] Speaker A: I agree with that. [00:52:34] Speaker B: Good point. [00:52:37] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:52:37] Speaker G: He, when he hit that uie, I was scared because he done jumped out the car at the red light and. And he was like, what did I do to you? What did I do? I was like, you didn't do anything. I was praying that that red light turned green so fast. I hit I75. Oh. I was speeding and he followed me all the way up to like five or six different cities. It was crazy. It was crazy. [00:52:59] Speaker D: Oh, sorry. It's not fun. I'm sorry. [00:53:04] Speaker G: I'm sorry guys. I did not know I was that loud. My mic is super loud. But anyways, yeah, thank you for playing my messages and yeah, people sometimes on first dates, you know the etiquette of a first date. Yeah. Good job guys. I like this conversation. I had so many thoughts. [00:53:28] Speaker E: Shame on you, Gerard. Come on. Oh, I am not like that. But later on you'll get it. Yes. Somebody said topgolf. Me and my boo went. Went and played topgolf. It was so fun. Let's see, we've been fishing together. We've done outdoorsy things together. Yeah. It's not just home. You got to get out and do things together. We love going to the movies together. Yes, for sure. [00:54:05] Speaker A: All right. [00:54:06] Speaker H: Exactly. Because going out is. Going out to eat is overrated. And you can cook at the house. Boogie. You ain't coming to my house on the, on the first day. But I'm just saying like we, we could eat out any other time. Like let's go to an arcade. Let's go do something active so I can really get a feel on you. See how competitive you are. See if you a sore loser or not. See? You know what I'm saying? See how you strategize things before you do it in a game. Going out to eat. Cuz they might not. They may not be a conversation starter. And what if you not a conversation start? Like yeah, let, let's, let's get active, honey. [00:54:52] Speaker A: Cool with that. Just doing the arcade type stuff. [00:54:57] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:54:57] Speaker G: Okay. So this happened actually before. Like I actually went to his house and I don't know if I thought I wanted it or whatever, but I was like, oh, this don't feel right. So I had a quick change of my mind and I was like. And then he let. Left me stranded. Good thing I had a homegirl that came through and she had a gun. But that, that is the reason why I don't go to a man's place without my own transportation. So that's gonna not ever happen again. But yeah, when it happened the first time I felt asked out. Let's talk about it. I felt like, oh my God, how am I gonna get home? [00:55:43] Speaker D: But. [00:55:43] Speaker G: But I knew if I call one of my homegirls. Yes, I've. I have homegirls that save the day. They on the same page as me. We get into situations, you know, I already know what it is. It's great having a support system when you make bad decisions or he promises you everything. I don't know where I left off at because I wasn't looking. But yeah, I have a homegirl that came through for me and that's not ever happening again. Trust me. I'm always have a car on deck ready to go. I ain't trying to sell no dream. This is the things that I want. But yeah, that's not happening no more. That was a crazy situation. But we could be real here. Yeah, we don't went home with the guy and it didn't go as planned and he was a little too much and we got from there and then like yeah, it left me out there and I was like, oh gosh, what am I going to do if that happened? [00:56:45] Speaker A: But I don't know. [00:56:46] Speaker B: I don't know what else. [00:56:47] Speaker A: That's crazy. [00:56:50] Speaker G: And with some of these crazy dudes, you. I mean people. People always got two faces, I promise you. Like, you meet them and then you think that's cool. But that's when you was younger. I'm not going to lie to you. Like you think they was cool, but then turn around, you get with. You get with them and then they turn into somebody else and all they want is sex and they forcing you. It's like lightweight rape. You feel me? Lightweight rape. You heard what I said where they real force on. They like oh, or you can leave and they put you out the house and you. You got to worry about and it be somewhere in bumblefoot. I would In a situation where it was like out in the country and I have no signal. If it wasn't for that WI Fi. If it wasn't for. If it wasn't for that digital WI fi that mobile T mobile guy, I don't know what I Would have did. [00:57:42] Speaker A: Damn. [00:57:43] Speaker D: It's not funny. I'm only laughing because she was laughing. I'm sorry. [00:57:47] Speaker C: The only sad thing about it is Turn Around Harry. You know, everybody got to have a turnaround, Harry. You know what? Turn Around Harry is right. [00:57:55] Speaker A: No, what's Turn Around Turn Around Harry Is that. [00:58:07] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:58:08] Speaker B: Really? [00:58:09] Speaker C: Look, I think. Go ahead and play the other three minutes, and I'll tell you about Turn Around Harry when you finish. [00:58:18] Speaker B: Three for. As far as Ms. K is concerned, like I said, I hate that she had to endure that. [00:58:24] Speaker C: Yes. Yeah. [00:58:25] Speaker D: And. [00:58:25] Speaker B: And no woman should endure that. Like I said again, you know, anytime you use, you know, being approached or. Or touched or. Or anything that you don't want, that's bad and that's wrong. But like I said, again, I thank her for her honesty. And like I said, she didn't have to present some of this stuff. But, Ms. Key, thank you. You. I mean, like I said, you. You don't know what you've done to me as an older man. You know, just thinking. Because I got a younger daughter, you know? But like I said, again, thank you for your honesty this evening. [00:59:00] Speaker E: What is ebt? Please explain. No, I have a Delta Community bank credit card, thank you very much. [00:59:13] Speaker G: Let me take you through some tests. Hey, hey. Cause I want to see how you act. Hey, hey. I don't got time for that crazy. None of that. None of that. Oh, man. Okay, then. Jenny. Yes. I need to see how you act. [00:59:33] Speaker A: That was all of the messages. [00:59:35] Speaker C: We got one more. [00:59:36] Speaker A: No, it says one more. I didn't see that one. [00:59:40] Speaker E: And from what I just said, would that bother you? If you went out on a date with a nice, lovely lady that had a son that made way more money than you? How would you feel? How would you feel? Would you feel comfortable going out on. Like, on a family dinner? And who would you think should pay? Would it be you? Would it be the sun. [01:00:05] Speaker B: Who did the inviting? [01:00:06] Speaker D: I think. I think me and your son going half and half. [01:00:13] Speaker A: I feel like. Well, I feel like you was gonna say that. [01:00:17] Speaker D: Hey, look. Hey, hey, look. Hey, little wardy. Hey, look. You know I got your mama. You gotta cover your wife. That's how this goes. [01:00:29] Speaker A: Wow. [01:00:30] Speaker D: I could get y'all, but I'm choosing not to. Okay. Hey, look. Blessings to you. Stay blessed up. So how would the check be? Oh, it's me and her and him and her. Just saying, wow, you and your lady rolled in the car with us. The least you could do. I ain't ask you for gas money. At least you can do this cover. You and this lady that I am not sleeping with. Hey, look, you brought her. She sucked my dick. [01:01:04] Speaker C: Wow. [01:01:05] Speaker D: So I need you to go ahead and handle that. [01:01:07] Speaker C: Wow. [01:01:08] Speaker B: Respectfully. [01:01:08] Speaker D: Respectfully. Respectfully. Wow. You don't say that table. But you. But you know, you will text them. You look at him like, hey, check your phone right quick. [01:01:20] Speaker E: I don't know. [01:01:21] Speaker D: I'm just saying. [01:01:23] Speaker B: Wow. [01:01:29] Speaker A: I'm not, I'm not. I can't. [01:01:32] Speaker G: I'm gonna turn it down some because I don't. I don't want y'all to think that. Like, it's just crazy. But it's experiences of what you go through. Not every female go through it. Not everybody has that correct guidance. I think mine was just out of curiosity, but I don't want to say it. I don't want to say it. When guys are constantly trying to talk to you, you don't know which one to choose, and then you choose the one, the wrong one, and then. There, there, that happens. But I was saying, like, when things are forceful, you know, I'm running out the door anyway, so I. I'm not stupid. I'm still here to talk about it. You better know. But I'm sharing it because it's all kinds of situations and whether people are embarrassed to share it. The etiquette of dating is not brought to you by all people. It is something that is. You know, everyone's got a motive. Yeah. You meet, you see people, you see people masking themselves like gentlemen. And then when they don't get what they want, those are the things that happen. And yeah, I have a daughter, too, and we got boxing gloves. And I teach my daughter how to knock a out. If it has to come down to it, or you better run, we bet we're gonna be athletic around here. Whatever we need to do to protect ourselves, even if we need to change our words up, we talk in a way to tone some things down, to make people feel like it's not that. You know, sometimes you got to learn different things. I mean, I was even thinking about a self defense class because you don't know people do that. And I just pray that almighty God keeps us protected always, you feel me? [01:03:24] Speaker C: But yeah, that's why I said you need to turn around, Harry. [01:03:29] Speaker A: So let me turn around. [01:03:32] Speaker C: So Harry is some matter of fact. I ain't got my glasses. You got yours on. Look, tell them where Harry is. Go ahead. You let him know right there. Harry. [01:03:43] Speaker B: Harry. A friend who you've known longer than your life and and who will always be loved by everyone around him. He shares his confidence and pride with the world and isn't afraid of anything that people throw at him. He can be sensitive. That's when it comes to emotions. [01:04:05] Speaker C: That's right. [01:04:05] Speaker B: But he is strong hearted and carries on with a smile. [01:04:10] Speaker C: That's right. [01:04:11] Speaker B: I would do anything for Harry. I love you, befriend. That's right. [01:04:17] Speaker C: So that's why everybody need to turn around Harry. You know why I turn. Turn around. Harry's the man. [01:04:22] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:04:22] Speaker D: You know what I'm saying? [01:04:23] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:04:23] Speaker C: I mean, look, so do anybody on the, on this panel think that they're Harry. I'm a Harry. [01:04:30] Speaker B: I'm. I'm a Harry. And I'm a supporter of Ms. Key right now because like I said, you know, with her teaching her daughter the things that she's teaching her daughter, that's a good thing. [01:04:39] Speaker C: That's right. [01:04:39] Speaker B: You know, teacher, teacher. Auto teacher. [01:04:42] Speaker C: Man, look, who was, who was the, the black guy. Let me say it right. Who's the African American guy who had the ball head back in the days who used to show them how to. You remember? He had a. It was a vh. Look, go ahead. Yeah, yeah, look, I, I tell all the ladies, show your, show your kids how to do the tie bow. I ain't talking about the Thai bow. [01:05:08] Speaker B: Yeah, I talking about. [01:05:09] Speaker C: We know tie bow. We ain't talking about that tie boy. [01:05:13] Speaker A: There we go then. We ain't talking about that. [01:05:19] Speaker C: But yeah, Billy, Billy Banks had it. And you know, and one thing. And one thing about, you know, Harry, Harry stay honest. So everybody needs somebody who, who be. And then, you know, so sad about it. Gerard and Ro and Dale is that it's a bunch of guys that get walked by because the. These ladies matter of fact. And, and guys, they, they, they want somebody else. It's man, it's a bunch of nice people, man. You know, we got. I, I know a friend of mine, he stay on Facebook dating. He got so many Facebook dating right now. Now he my best friend. One of my best friends stay on Facebook dating. Long to hit my ass. [01:06:01] Speaker A: Shoot. [01:06:07] Speaker D: This is. Hey, that's his heroin. [01:06:10] Speaker C: And you should see all the woman that he post this joke 5 duffel bag in his car as we talk right now. [01:06:22] Speaker D: Yo, one bag is all condoms. [01:06:25] Speaker C: Yep, yep. Hey, look, but that's what he do. He's a turn around. He's a turnaround. Hey, look, he know how to make everybody. He know how to make them women feel good. And like he killing and then he Got. He got different voice when he answered phone. Look, today, I heard somebody call him today. And I would sit in front of him all day long. You got the raspy voice all of a sudden. [01:06:47] Speaker B: Had that Teddy Pendergrass on. [01:06:48] Speaker C: Hello. Yeah. [01:06:51] Speaker E: Huh? [01:06:54] Speaker D: Hello. Looking for. [01:07:02] Speaker A: I don't know who this friend is, but man, look. [01:07:06] Speaker C: Anybody. [01:07:09] Speaker A: Sound like a classic guy there. I don't know what you're talking about and what it could be. What it could be with that friend. That your best friend. You know what I'm saying? Maybe they attracted to his witty. His boyish charm and witty sense of humor. [01:07:36] Speaker C: I'mma tell y'all this. [01:07:43] Speaker B: We just. We just talking, you know. [01:07:47] Speaker A: Oh, boy. Yeah, yeah. Something else, something else. We got a message. [01:07:53] Speaker C: And then, and then the thing about it now, he don't move. He don't move all the duffel, but he moved one duffel bag. He got the, like he like the President of the United States. He got top secret in the front seat. Got them all scrapped down. Seat belt. He got car seat in the back holding. They're all his top, top information back there. I looked at his truck car a few minutes ago. I just looked at it just now. Oh, sorry, brother. [01:08:18] Speaker A: We got a message from Ms. Key. [01:08:22] Speaker G: But check this out though. Y'all too funny. But I say what I want to say and I don't care about how. What nobody else thinks. So I share that with y'all. And I loved it. The fact that y'all brought up first their etiquette. Cuz a lot of. A lot of folks don't got it. They don't even know how to show up with a woman and have etiquette and be already with somebody. So boom. [01:08:50] Speaker C: Why. Why she sound like she breathing in, breathe in, breathe out, breathing. [01:08:56] Speaker B: Ms. Key, we appreciate the fact that you like, like tonight's show. [01:08:59] Speaker C: That's right. [01:09:00] Speaker B: Like I said again, we've heard more from you. Thank night than we have ever. And we appreciate you, sweetheart. We really do. [01:09:05] Speaker C: Hey, where's Cali? She's quiet. Hey, Cali, come out and talk. [01:09:15] Speaker B: Ms. K, we might have to get you a hoodie and a. And a hat something. [01:09:19] Speaker C: Good deal. [01:09:29] Speaker A: Oh, my God. [01:09:32] Speaker D: Oh, my side hurt. But I tell you what though, you. [01:09:37] Speaker B: Know, I want you guys to be mindful of the reason why we have this show. We have the show to be to. To inform people, to encourage people, to support people, to make you laugh, to give you something to think about after the show goes off. That's why we do this. We enjoy ourselves. And like I Said we want you to enjoy us as well. This is episode 72, first date etiquette. And like you said, Ms. Keith said it first and best. Some guys, some women don't know what first date etiquette is supposed to look like. And like I said, we just sharing. We're having fun, but we also sharing some thoughts and some serious concerns. [01:10:17] Speaker A: Oh, we got a message. [01:10:22] Speaker E: Hey, man, did you just say Cali talk? I'm doing laundry. I went downstairs to get my laundry. Golly. [01:10:35] Speaker A: Y'All are something else. Okay, let me see where we at, because we went over the. We're over an hour, so it's a good topic. [01:10:51] Speaker D: Oh, it is. Oh, shoot. My joint showing. 53, 55. [01:10:55] Speaker A: No. Well, mine's showing. Yeah. Remember? Yeah, I remember. Yours blacked out. [01:11:00] Speaker C: Whoa. [01:11:01] Speaker A: Yours blacked out and then. Yeah, blacked out and came back. [01:11:04] Speaker D: That's a little disrespectful. [01:11:05] Speaker C: All right. [01:11:14] Speaker D: Yo, you heard the one with him and Cardi? Not Cardi, no. What's her name? Glow. [01:11:20] Speaker A: Glorilla. [01:11:22] Speaker D: The beat sounds somewhat similar. [01:11:24] Speaker B: Yeah. So Charlotte won. [01:11:29] Speaker C: Y'all know Cat Will tonight. [01:11:32] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:11:37] Speaker D: I didn't know that. [01:11:38] Speaker C: At the Bojangles. Yeah, some. Somebody changed it to kfc, though. [01:11:46] Speaker D: Wow. [01:11:48] Speaker A: What the hell? [01:11:50] Speaker C: But yeah, we. Yeah, go ahead, Gerard. We got you. [01:11:57] Speaker A: Oh, no, I'm gonna say if y'all. We go ahead and everybody get a final thought, we go ahead and close out. It was a great topic, though. [01:12:07] Speaker C: That's right. A real good topic. [01:12:09] Speaker B: Final thought for me. Like I said, again, you know, first dates are. Are important. They. They matter. But again, like I said, let it be one on one if possible. If you got a. A group of family members at home and you need to bring them something back, that's fine. But let's not show up with a bunch of kids. Let a one on one be a one on one. Get to know each other and enjoy each other. Again, like I said, I'll. I'll say it till I'm a hundred. Again, we thank each and every listener. Like I said, Ms. P, you the star of the show tonight. We thank you and we appreciate you. Appreciate you too, Cali. [01:12:46] Speaker C: I guess. So I'm next. So him says that a hyena don't have a phone, but a skunk does. [01:13:01] Speaker A: Wow. [01:13:02] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yes. I'm in the deep end of the pool right now. [01:13:13] Speaker A: Bro. You got a final thought? [01:13:15] Speaker D: Oh. You know, as you look off and you gaze and you see the darkness, all you need to know is first date, long term mate, tuba colgate. [01:13:38] Speaker B: Lakers in five. [01:13:51] Speaker A: Oh, I didn't. I didn't even see that. I didn't see that. I should have known. I didn't see it. I didn't see it. All right, my final thought. My final thought. The biggest thing as far as, you know, first date, first day etiquette, just be yourself. Like it was something that Rose said earlier. Just be yourself. And if the vibe is right, then, you know what I'm saying, you're good, you know, I mean, so you don't have. Don't try to be something that you're not. You know what I'm saying? Don't go on a date. And because the date not going the way you want to go, want it to go, you want to show them your 401k. I know a dumbass that did that. You know what I'm saying? So. Oh, God. Just like I said, just be yourself. You ain't gotta be nothing. You ain't gotta be nobody else. That's it. But we want to thank everyone that listened tonight, everyone that left messages. We appreciate it. We appreciate everyone that will be listening later on. And we'll be back next week, next Friday, and we'll be at full staff. We'll have the sex symbol JP back. Yes, sir. Other than that, this was another episode from Run and Tell, that podcast, and we're out. [01:15:29] Speaker B: Peace.